January 2010

NYC Pleasure Salon

Location: Happy Ending, 302 Broome St. NYC (Pink awning says “Xie He Health”
Cost: Free

With guest host CineKink.

We will have pre-cut hearts for you to create your own Valentine. Fill it out, give it to Cupid (played by the vivacious Ivy) and she will deliver it to the person (or people) you desire.

The Pleasure Salon has been created to build community, allowing sex-positive activists to cross-pollinate. Our gatherings bring together members of the BDSM, swinger, alternative gender, LGBT, sex-activist, sex educator, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, Pagan, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, porn, pervert and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex. (Let us know if we missed any one of you!) Through building networks in the sex-positive community, The Pleasure Salon hopes to help create a sex-positive world. It is a place for the open exchange of ideas and sensual expression.

Join us in building New York’s pleasure positive community, and bring your like-minded friends to this social gathering. The Pleasure Salon embraces respect, acceptance, and non-judgmental support in this public space.

In pleasure,
Patricia Johnson, Selina Fire & Mark Michaels

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Thursday, January 28
Alphabet Soup

Friday, January 29
TES-TNG: “Rope Share”
TES College Night Toga Party
Paradise Lost

Saturday, January 30
Rope Share
Submit

Sunday, January 31
New York Bondage Club
NYC TNG Party Night
Suspension party

Monday, February 1
One of the Most Important Tests You’ll Ever Take
CV: Erotic Writing as a Tool for Seduction and Negotiation with Jack Stratton. Columbia Univ., Hamilton Hall, Rm 316, 9:00 PM

Tuesday, February 2
TES: “Punishing Holds: Dominant Wrestling Holds to Learn and Enjoy” w/ Damien TD & VeVe

Wednesday, February 3
TES “TEC@TES: Blue Ribbon Round-Up”

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e[lust] #6

by Lolita Wolf on 01/27/2024

in sexbloggers

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Exposing My Self to Airport Security – I stared right at her until she looked away and called for assistance for a pat-down search.  I gaped, chin dropped: holy shit, they’re gonna give me a pat down cuz I’m packing a silicon cock.

Prefect’s Prerogative – When I neglect this duty, or don’t perform it to his satisfaction, he makes me light a fire in his room, and stand in front of it in just my school shirt and white socks.

Attention Women: There is Something Wrong With Your Vagina – Yes, that’s what your vagina needs: a breath mint. Because, just like vagina shouldn’t smell like vagina, it also shouldn’t taste like vagina.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

The Perfect Fat – Why do clothes designers assume that if you’re plus-sized you’re 1. over 5′9″ and 2. over the age of 45 or “matronly and modest”? At the age of 32 I am not yet ready to dress like my grandmother.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Zipless – “I have some Scotch in my room—maybe you’d join me? You know, in the interest of not drinking alone…” She smiled. Perhaps she could yet salvage the day’s ending.


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, check out the coverage of the Adult Entertainment Expo that happened in Las Vegas a couple weeks ago. You’ll see videos and articles from our fellow sex-bloggers on fun things like a rodeo penis and new sex toys not even on the market yet!

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Arousal is not consent
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Squicked
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The Case of the Mysteriously Vanishing G-spot
Transtastic: Joking About Being Trans
Vegas – Day One – Diva’s Quick Recap
Vegas – Day One – Tess’s Thoughts
Why Don’t They Just LEAVE?

Kink & Fetish

Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Bad Submissive
Claiming: Go Pantiless After
Dating Refresher
Electric fuck
Fetishes and me
Kinky With Class
Laziness never pays off
Piercing reversal
Resolution
Titty Fuck
The Coffee Date, Part 2
The Job Interview
Without Reason

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

BDSM Relationship Advice for Newbies
Greedy For The Verse
Hang Ups and Hand Jobs
Ivy Madden
If she had just been a better wife…
Insomnia
Swinging
The Sexiness Beneath
Weightlessness

Erotic Writing

42DD
A Different Kind of Fuck
Across the Room
All in a Play Party’s Night
Amazing Night
Bedtime Story
Behind You
Breathe and Let Go
Done by a Clown
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Glow
Lick You As Long As You Like
Moments of Clarity
Naughty Neighbor
Saturday Night’s Alright (For Swapping)
Sex and Video Games
Slip sliding away
The Slut Chronicles #11 ~ The Dinner Party
Thursdays
Tyler
Visitors in my Bedroom
Wicked Wednesday: Altitude
When you Talk About Maelee

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Editor’s Pick

  • Fun Factory Flexi Felix by Dr. Ruthie
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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

  • LELO Mona by Laurel
  • LELO Mia by Toy With Me
  • Je Joue Gi-Ki by Laurel
  • I Rub My Duckie Bondage by Undressed Reviews
  • LELO Iris and Gigi by Joanna Cake
  • Thrusting Jack Rabbit by Melen’s Rayne
  • Fly Micro Vibe by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
  • LELO Iris by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
  • Close2You Opus by EffinSara
  • Cloud 9 by EffinSara
  • Thrusting Jack Rabbit by Cinnamon
  • Je Joue Gi-Ki by Bad Bad Girl
  • Vibrating Panties by Bad Bad Girl
  • Jimmyjane Iconic Pocket by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
  • OhMiBod Freestyle by Pretty Power Tools
  • LELO Ina by Saraid
  • Spellbound Stud Curved Jack by Mistress Kay
  • Onye Fleur by CarrieAnn
  • iTap Egg by CarrieAnn
  • Wisper Mistery by Kristi
  • LELO Mona by Sammi
  • Silicone Flexi Power Rod by Red
  • Triple Treat Rabbit by Sammi
  • Evolved Symphony Opus by Kateanon
  • Evolved Citron by Pretty Power Tools
  • Velvet Purple Pill by LikeSunshineDust

Dildos

  • LELO Ella by Mistress Kay
  • Don Wands Nubby Fat Head by Ginger Leigh
  • LELO Ella by Dani Darling
  • Tantus Compact by EffinSara
  • Rainbow Nubby by Lithaewyn

Anal Toys

  • Luxotiq Metal Plug by Sammi
  • Luxotiq Glass Plug by Saraid
  • Bootie by Profligacy

Toys for Cocks

  • Gear Essentials Titan by Hubman and Veronica
  • LELO Bo by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
  • Boss Cock’s Pleasure Ring by Mistress Kay
  • Wave Rider Cock Ring by Sammi
  • LELO Bo by Kateanon

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

  • Astroglide Shooters by Undressed Reviews
  • Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Massage Oil by Saraid
  • Intimate Organics Relaxing Massage Oil by Red
  • Hathor Aphrodisia by Domina Doll

BDSM/Fetish

  • Lavish Nipple Clamps by Cinnamon
  • Zeus Deluxe Digital Power box by Bad Bad Girl
  • Superstrap Ankle Cuffs by Melen’s Rayne
  • Fulfill-a-fantasy Suede Flogger by Mistress Kay
  • Six Vaginal Electrodes by Sweet Tart
  • Nipple Clamps by Domina Doll

Adult Books

  • The Human Pony by Cinnamon
  • Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex by Dani Darling
  • Moregasm by Alley
  • The New Topping Book by Domina Doll

Adult Movies/Porn

  • Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Bondage by Domina Doll
  • Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage by Lexi B.
  • Real Lesbian Sex: Jay & Pike by The Porn Librarian
  • Vengence by FrzKey
  • Riot Grrrls by J.D. Bauchery
  • Straight Guys for Gay Eyes – Bo Dean by The Porn Librarian
  • Princess Kali – Domme In Training by FrzKey

Sex Furniture

  • Liberator Memory Foam Body Pillow by Beautiful Dreamer

Storage

  • Tunti Illuminating Toybox by Domina Doll
  • Tunti Toybox by Mistress Kay

Miscellaneous

  • Teneo Uno and Duo by Beautiful Dreamer
  • Portable Pink Dancing Kit by Beautiful Dreamer
  • Ophoria K-Balls by CarrieAnn

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