December 2008

Jayne Mansfield

Jayne Mansfield

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And auld lang syne!For auld lang syne, my dear,
For auld lang syne.
We’ll take a cup o’ kindness yet,
For auld lang syne.

Here’s a toast to the future, A toast to the past,
And a toast to our friends, far and near.May the future be pleasant;
The past a bright dream; May our friends remain faithful and dear. ~ Anonymous

May the roads rise to meet you.
May the wind be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face; The rain fall soft upon your fields
And, until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
A GAELIC BLESSING


It’s been a devastating year for sex writing. Audacia Ray sums it up the changes best in her post, “The End of the Sex Writer?”

Bloggers write for as many reasons are as there are blogs. And they cease writing, or go on hiatus for just as many reasons. Whatever the reason, here are a few notable ones I know about that have gone dark, or private, and will be missed.

  • Adriana’s Secret
  • Alphaslave
  • Awakening the Demon (Marvin)
  • Bridget’s Boys
  • Dirty Couple in VA
  • Easily Aroused
  • Erotic Journal of Juno Henry
  • Hobo Stripper
  • My Life as a Clandestine Call Girl
  • One Life Take Two (Jefferson)
  • Nameless Erotica
  • Pick up the Pieces (Megan)
  • Polyamorously Perverse
  • Red Light Chronicles
  • Sugarbank (Sam Sugar)
  • Tales from the City (646 Guy)

Luna Beads

by Domina Doll on 12/31/2025

in sex toys, sextoys

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Although I have never had children, I still believe it is important to exercise my PC muscles on a regular basis. “Overtime, the vagina and its surrounding muscles on the pelvic floor can weaken, stretch, become torn and no longer offer support… Since the PC muscle also encircles the outside of the vagina, healthy PC muscles will improve sexual arousal… allow you to reach orgasm more easily, experience more powerful and pleasurable orgasms, and may even help you achieve multiple orgasms as you learn to better control and respond to your sexual arousal. Fit PC muscles also improve G-spot stimulation and can help you learn to experience G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation.”–from my article: Vaginal Health and Kegel Exercises.

But, to be honest, doing kegel exercises is often a drag.  Either I forget to do them, or get bored with them.  That’s where Luna Beads come in, thank you to the wonderful gals at Babeland.  I have tried various other kegel exercisers before including Fun Factory’s Smart Balls [my review].  And, although I liked Smart Balls and Fun Factory toys, for me they can’t compare to Luna Beads.  Lelo, a designer of pleasure objects and the creators of Luna Beads, just seems to do everything better.  They have an intuitive knowledge of a woman’s anatomy and make “pleasure items” that just feel and work to perfection.

Luna Beads are sleek and sexy.  They are made from PC-ABS plastic that is ultra-sleek and feels like silk against the skin.  The kit (housed in an elegant and practical storage box) comes with four weighted beads (two 28 gram beads and two 37 gram beads), a silicone composition girdle (to hold the beads in place when using two in tandem), an instruction booklet to show you how to use them, a satin storage bag and a one year warranty.

Now, you are probably wondering, “why all the beads”?  This is because Lelo has designed a neat little system to use the beads based on experience level and desired workout.  You can use just one bead starting at the lowest weight of 28 grams if you have never done kegels with beads before, for a “low impact” workout.  Add the second 28 gram bead to the first using the composition girdle and you have a 56 gram workout and two beads to squeeze around.  You can mix and match the beads for more challenging workouts and varying results, working your way up to the two 37 gram beads workout.  It is just an ingenious system!

What I love about Luna Beads is how they feel.  They slide in very easily with a bit of lube and are nice and small.  I found Smart Balls were a bit big for me and am much happier with the size of the Luna Beads.  They are quite perfect.  That doesn’t mean you won’t get a good work out from them, however, the workout will just be that much more comfortable.  I could actually wear these all day without worrying about them, they are so comfortable.  Plus, they are actually enjoyable to workout with.  They make kegels exercises much more exciting and pleasurable.  As a matter of fact, I used them while masturbating with a clitoral vibe (my favorite the Lily-also by Lelo) [my review].  Annie Sprinkle always promotes clenching your PC muscles while masturbating to experience bigger, better, longer, multiple orgasms and body-gasms.  Masturbating with the Luna Beads makes this much easier to do because you can concentrate on that area while feeling the balls inside you.  Well, I want to say that Annie is right (as usual) and with the help of Luna Beads I was able to have one of Annie’s mega-gasms.  Mine didn’t last five minutes like hers, but at least a minute I’m sure.  Seriously, I thank Luna Beads for helping me make this discovery.

I now try to wear Luna Beads on a daily basis, for an hour or so in the morning while drinking my tea and catching up with emails.  I have noticed my muscles seem much firmer already after only two weeks.  Before, doing kegels always seemed like a chore, but now they are such a pleasure.

Luna Beads

Smart Balls

Size

Small (3-1/2” x 1-2/5”)

Medium (1-1/2″ x 4″)

Material

ABS Plastic/Silicone

Silicone

Body Friendly

Yes- Phthalates free

Hypo-allergenic

Yes- Phthalates free

Hypo-allergenic

Feel

Smooth and Sleek

Bulky and Organic

Function

Variable

One Way to Use

Cleaning

Simple soap and water

Simple soap and water

Pluses

Comes with storage box, 1 year warranty, storage bag, instructions book.

Comes with instructions pamphlet and lube.

Price

Posh- Double the Price of Smart Balls

Affordable- Half the Price of Luna Beads

Check out Luna Beads and Smart Balls at Babeland and from now until Jan 13th get 25% off Babeland’s 20 Bestselling sex toys of 2008!


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Happy New Year!  Best to All for 2009!

Black Phoenix Club Black Phoenix Club (Photo by Kuma Rigger)

The Black Phoenix Club in Philadelphia will be having a 4 day event called “Winter Solstice” beginning with a New Year’s Eve Party at 8 PM. The next three days will follow with classes, vendors and evenings at the play space. Shibari Warrior has pulled together a really impressive group of instructors: Kuma, Graydancer, David Lawrence, SaschaK, Jay Wiseman, Steve B, Pyro Sadist, to name just a few.

The www.blackphoenixclub.com website is up with more information. Tickets must be purchased in advance. You can buy tickets for $75.00 via Paypal, online, at Le Chateau Exotique and at Passional. An incredibly reasonable price for 4 days of rope instruction and play!

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Raven Maven by Fatale Femmes Photography

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #8? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #10? Submit it here before Sunday December 14th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

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On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

  • Afterglow Candle by Ansley Agnello

Note: Ansley always has the most adorable video reviews, and inspired myself and others to do video reviews. You can check out some of her other reviews at the end of the video too!

Madame Editrix

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Vibrators

  • Babeland Aqua Wand by Erin Leone
  • Gigi by LELO by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
  • Elle Clitoral Dancer by Epiphora
  • Laya Spot by Holden
  • Babeland Aqua Wand by Sexorcism
  • Phallix Liquid-Filled Glass Vibe by Betty Rocket
  • Iconic Pocket Rocket by Kyle of Butchtastic
  • Lelo Mia by Ang
  • bNaughty by by Ang
  • Ophoria Bliss No 12 by Monkey

Dildos

  • Champlette by Hot Movies For Her Sex Toy Crew

Anal Toys

  • Bendy Beads by Alpine Subdreams

Lube/Massage Oil/Bath Stuff

BDSM/Fetish

  • Black Leather Buckle Collar by Betty Rocket
  • Tub Cuffs by No Fauxxx
  • Vulnerable – Door Jam Cuffs by Rori of Between My Sheets
  • Japanese Bondage Rope by Dangerous Lilly

Erotic Books/Games

  • Best Lesbian Erotica 2008 by Ansley Agnello
  • The Modern Kama Sutra in a Box by Radical Vixen

Adult Movies/Porn

Toy Storage

  • A Home for my Cane – FYN Cane Case Review by Thursday’s Child
  • Oh Noes! It’s Big Foot! – FYN Big Foot Case by Panthera Pardus
  • Big Foot – FYN Case by Nadia West

Miscellaneous

  • The Strap-On by hedonisticbitch
  • Liberator Ramp by Essin’ Em
  • Smartballs by Betty Rocket
  • Cat Woman Kit by Domina Doll

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