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Crossover in sex work (Dominatrix Next Door)
May 9th, 2025 by Viviane
…A common conceit is that clients can pay me for my time and I can do whatever I like. Ugh! I can assure you of two things, one in line with the stereotype and one in opposition. First, at any given time I would probably rather be reading a book in the park; if someone really wants to free up my time from all this terrible, tedious work, research financial slavery. (In other words, give me the money and leave; don’t sit around whining about how you’re not worthy. I’m only too happy to believe you.) Second, the joy I take in domination is closely linked to the joy (or whatever it is that involves all the squealing and begging) that you get from submission.
Never have I had a job where my clients made me feel so weird about respect and compassion. Or seen so much internalized guilt passed off as sexual fantasy.
The most boring session for me is one where I poke at you with random implements and you don’t respond. I might as well be sticking pins in a mannequin for all the sexual thrill I get out of that. I don’t doubt that pain hurts you, or denial frustrates you; my pleasure lies in the fact that you’ve asked me for it anyway. (more. . . )