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Lesbian Sex Mafia presents Spanking with Tina Horn

by Viviane on 10/06/2025

in nyc

Tina Horn Lesbian Sex Mafia presents Spanking with Tina Horn

Spanking fantasies are as varied as the people who enjoy them, but often stigmas keep us from safely exploring this fun, cost-free erotic activity.Some of us daydream of strict discipline, while others just enjoy any way we can get our hands on a nice ass. Join profession dominant/submissive and kinky porn star Tina Horn as she leads an upbeat seminar that will empower you to live out and take pride in your fantasies.Tops will empower themselves with the skills necessary to administer the most delicious spanks, and bottoms will learn how they can help facilitate the treatment they’ve always deserved. This class will also touch on other types of impact play such as flogging and caning, as well as basic role play and Dominant/Submissive techniques. Novices, old hands, tops, bottoms, couples, men, women, and queers of all identities and orientations are welcome and encouraged to attend. The class will include a hot live demo!

Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th St. (7th/8th Ave)
When: Friday, October 21, 2011; 8:00-10:00PM
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

ABOUT TINA HORN

Tina Horn is the Smartest Ass in Show Business Today! For the past five years she has worked in the Bay Area as a professional BDSM switch. She is a performer, producer, director, and writer of queer and kinky porn. In 2010 she co-created, with Courtney Trouble, QueerPorn.Tv, which explores queer community voices and sexual expression through hardcore porn, free educational segments, and intimate identity discussions; within its first six months it won the Feminist Porn Award for Best Website. Tina has spoken and led workshops in impact play and sexual communication at Good Vibrations as well as various universities, community centers, and art galleries. Her writing has been published in numerous magazines and books, including AORTA magazine, Whore! magazine, and several Cleis Press anthologies. She is currently pursuing her MFA in Writing in NYC and cannot even begin to tell you how badly she could use a spanking right now.

ABOUT LESBIAN SEX MAFIA

Founded in 1981 by Dorothy Allison and Jo Arnone, the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM) is the oldest continuously running women’s BDSM support and education groups in the country. We are located in New York City, with a membership primarily in the tri-state area of New York, New Jersey and Connecticut. However, we also have members along the East Coast, across the country and even in Europe!

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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Armand Van Helden: Hear My Name

by Viviane on 07/07/2024

in video

A lovely tea party setting, and LOTS of spanking….

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Spanking Techniques from Sensual to Discipline w. Lady Sabrina

by Viviane on 06/08/2024

in Events, leather, nyc

Who:  Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM)*
Where: The LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street between 7th and 8th Avenues
Cost:  $5 for members;$10 for non-members

Some people think of spanking as the least challenging of BDSM skills, requiring the least knowledge. It’s not flamboyant like singletails or edgy like knife play so it can’t be as exciting. However, in the proper hands, spanking can be a slow, sensuous climb to orgasm or a sharp, harsh discipline. It can be used to create a loving, hands-on scene, reduce the strongest person to tears or re-create a cherished fantasy.

Lady Sabrina will show how spanking can be a valuable tool in your arsenal as she discusses the different styles of spanking, value of role play, safety and use of toys. .

About Lady Sabrina

Lady Sabrina has been a member of the BDSM community for over 15 years presenting for TES, Knot4Everyone, DSF, Black Rose, John Jay College, PEP and others. A BDSM educator, she’s presented on such topics as Designing Protocols, slave training, scene etiquette, flogging, hot wax, Basic Dom Skills, etc. and has acted as an informal Mentor to many in the scene.

Having a love of paddles, floggers and books, Lady Sabrina supports her habit by selling BDSM gear and fetish wear at events like Folsom Street and Leatherfest through her business, My Lady’s Toys.

Lady Sabrina is currently on the Boards of TES, NY Leather Weekend, MAsT Metro NY, Cercle des Dommes and East Coast Leather Town Hall. She’s also a member of ONYX Pearls, LPN, SCONY and FM Masters. Lady Sabrina is honored to be the recipient of the 2008 Pantheon of Leather Northeast Regional Award.

* About LSM
LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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Release (How My Other Half Lives)

by Viviane on 01/23/2024

in spanking

. . . I let the pain flow through me – out through my fingertips and into the mattress. Face down. Ass exposed. I closed my eyes and let myself feel the sting each time his hand connected with my skin. A groan spilled out of my throat with each strike.

“You like that, don’t you, little slut? See how turned on you are because I’m making your ass turn red?”

I nodded. I’m pretty sure that’s what he said, cliche as it sounds, though his words barely registered. I didn’t want them to. I didn’t want to think. I wanted the outside world to fade so that nothing remained but sensation.

At some point, he switched to a belt. I watched my own body buckle under each hit.

More. . ..

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Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica book tour

by Viviane on 09/04/2025

in spanking

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Here’s an excerpt from URL: Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica book tour edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Spanking You by Rick Roberts
The thing is, you can usually tell the first time you hang out with a woman whether or not she’ll be into it. I’m not sure what it is exactly—maybe something in the way she responds to you, how she looks into your eyes when you’re talking to her, how she hangs on your words and lets you set the pace in the conversation as if it’s a dance and you’re leading. There’s something in her demeanor that silently conveys to you: I’d let you do it to me…and what’s more, I’d like it.I knew right away with you that first night, but I asked anyway. You were lying on your stomach, your shirt and pants and bra discarded beside us on the bed. I was massaging your back and legs, and as your cheeks lay exposed to me on either side of your black satin thong, I began to playfully pat your ass.”Do you like being spanked?” I asked.

You laughed, but as I kept patting your ass, you shifted slightly to offer it more freely to me. A low hum, almost a groan, came from deep in your throat. It was the sound of someone who’s just had an embarrassing secret discovered—feeling shame over the discovery but gratitude at having the burden of secrecy lifted.

Given this encouragement, I slapped your right cheek once, and then again, harder. The sound of my hand impacting your ass sparked the air. I heard you swallow your next breath. “It sends shivers up my body,” you whispered. And just like that, we’d entered into a tacit agreement.

My hand and your ass. They made a perfect match.

I’d been told I have great hands for this. Maybe it was from years of playing tennis that I’d developed a deft touch for delivering spankings. The most effective stroke is not a clumsy, linear blow that jars the flesh, but one in which the hand practically stops before the skin and then ricochets upward at the end of the follow-through, much like a topspin stroke, leaving a stinging sensation spreading across the surface of the ass.

The best build for an ass to be spanked is not one that’s firm and steel-tight, but one like yours—generously sized, with just a bit of cushion. With every spank delivered to a prominent ass, the force sends tiny ripples of shock up the hips and down along the thighs. When a woman is positioned on all fours, naked, with her hind region on display, she’s at her most vulnerable. She knows you can see the most private places on her body, and she knows how it looks when she’s being spanked. For you, this vulnerability was part of the thrill. Kneeling behind you, staring at the globes of your ass stretched out in front of me, I knew you <I>wanted </I>me to spank you. I knew you wanted me to make your flesh quiver under the force of my hand, and you knew that I knew this. And you would deliver your ass to me again and again, both of us intoxicated in this knowing of knowing.


Spanked Virtual Book tour

1 – Alison Tyler
2 – The Cherry Red Report
3 – Thomas’s spanking exploits
4 – Zille Defeu’s Fetish Fantasies
5 – The House of Richard Windsor
6 – Funky Brown Chick
7 – Baser Instincts
8 – Life in Motion
9 – All Things Spanking
10 – Viviane’s Sex Carnival
11 – Jamye Waxman
12 – Babeland
13 – NYC Urban Gypsy
14 – Femdom Spanking Blog
15 – Spanking Abby
16 – BadBadGirl
17 – Ellie Lumpesse
18 – Sugarbutch Chronicles
19 – Breathing In and Breathing Out
20 – Essin Em
21 – Pursed Lips
22 – Mixing It Up
23 – Domestic Spanking Blog
24 – Nobilis Erotica
25 – Naked City
26 – All About George
27 – Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections
28 – Sexy Prime
29 – Naughty and Spice
30 – MeiLin Miranda
31 – AlwaysArousedGirl

Bonus days!

September

1 – Natty’s Spanking Blog
2 – Kristina Wright
3 – DigiRomp

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