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Vibrators are fun and dildos are cool, but every once in a while it is exciting to review something completely different.  One of my pet peeves about sex toys, is that there is not a lot of toys you can use together with a partner during sex.  Well, the Fantasy Sex Swing is made exactly for that purpose.  While it may be fun to hop in there and swing around by yourself, it is a whole lot more spectacular to share it with a partner.

I had my doubts that this was going to be that a stellar product.  But this Sex Swing is very well made and super sturdy.  It has all the sexy metal hardware you need to screw it into your door or ceiling including a huge spring, and the harness is made of strong quality strap.  It is pretty easy to install, comes with instructions and takes about 20 minutes to set it up, and then you are ready for fun.

It features two padded straps for support, one to sit on, the other to lay back on and a set of padded stir-ups.  All you have to do is lay back and enjoy!  It is fairly comfortable and allows you to easily get into positions that your normally wouldn’t be able to without it.  The box shows you various positions you can try out if you are game.  I was surprised how strong the swing is and how much it could hold.  It actually held both my partner and myself with me on top, which is over 300 pounds.  It is a very simple, yet effective design.

And, yes you can have lots of fun with this swing.  Just sitting and swinging in it alone is fun, but having sex in it is a blast.  When I was at the Sex Show Convention in Montreal a few months back, these sex swings were selling like hot cakes.  I can totally see why.  They are much cheaper than most of the sex swings out there (approx $145), but just as effective.  I also have a leather sex sling, that I keep in my barn (I know kinky barn).  And, while you can lay right back in that, the Sex Swing allows you to try multiple positions and is actually much easier for both you and your partner to position yourselves for ease of access.

Want to fuck like a porn star?  Well, maybe not exactly, but you will be able to get into the challenging positions you’ve only dreamed of that offer deeper penetration possibilities.  Plus, the feeling of being weightless while having sex is amazing.  If this doesn’t spice up your sex life, then nothing will!

You can pick up this sex swing and other sex toys at Sextoy.com where they have the lowest prices online.

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darkodysseywinterfire Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: Discount rates extended/Win a free ticket!

Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

Imagine a vacation where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. A wholly unique experience which brings together sexuality, spirituality, education, and play in a fun, supportive, non-judgmental, diverse environment where fantasy becomes reality.

Dark Odyssey is a weekend convention for open-minded adults from all walks of life. More info

Yesterday I got an email from the producers saying that the early discount discount hotel and registration rates have been extended until Thursday, January 15.

This blog is one of the participating groups supporting this event, you can register and get $25 off the registration fee. (When registering, select “Viviane’s Sex Carnival” from the list. When asked for a membership number, just type in anything.)

Want to know more? You can read roundups of past summer camps here, here, and here. There’s a great list of presenters, that you will not want to miss.

And I’m doing a contest! I have two complimentary admissions to give away to this amazing three day event (it does not include hotel, the Saturday night banquet). You are eligible to enter if 1) you’ve never attended a Dark Odyssey event before and 2) are not currently registered for the event.

To enter the contest, please comment to this post below and tell me in 100 words or less why you’d like to attend Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. The contest will end Sunday, January 18, 2009 at 6:00 PM EST. I will pick two random entry numbers  and I’ll announce the winner sometime on Monday, January 18th.

What are you waiting for? Go register! Enter the contest! See you at Winter Fire.

Every year at kinky sex camp, we create a multi-room erotic play-space for attendees, and for one night, each room has a theme. We like to keep things fresh, so we change up the themes every couple of years, but one never seems to go out of style: the Brothel. It’s a modest space with eight stations, each with a bed, a little table, and a flimsy curtain separating it from the next bed, plus a back room with a double bed and a little more privacy (which costs more, natch). We have our own currency at the event (kundalini kash), which campers can win, earn, borrow, and eventually spend. There’s a madam who recruits and organizes the whores, collects kash, matches clients with workers, and generally oversees the place. It’s always the busiest room.

People don’t tire of the sex-for-money fantasy. Actually, there is no one fantasy, but multiple scenarios, dynamics, and roles possible within the brothel setting. I talked to a bunch of this year’s whores (who included men, women, transfolk, and cross-dressers) about what they got out of their experiences. Some said they like being a whore because it’s taboo, naughty, and transgressive; the fact that it’s illegal prevents them from pursuing it in real life.

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