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…Whatever one thinks of BDSM, given the pain and intensity associated with it, it certainly doesn’t come across as a stress-reducing activity — to most outsiders, there wouldn’t appear to be anything relaxing about whips and handcuffs. And yet practitioners say that BDSM is more than just kinky sex. Some practices, they argue, can enhance the psychological well-being of their participants. And recent science has started to support these claims, suggesting that certain forms of BDSM may have anti-anxiety effects, as well as other mental health benefits.

The transformative effects of bondage are well known within the BDSM community. “We call it ‘rope space,’” says Roxie, who leads the New York chapter of Hitchin Bitches, a rope bondage group for women. Also called “subspace” or being “rope drunk,” submissives describe entering an altered state of consciousness in which one feels totally released from stress and present in the moment…

http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/01/can-bondage-reduce-anxiety.html

Ht to my pal RopeDreams for this article.

miholrgeFor nearly four years and many quarrels, my partner and I have connected with love. A thousand times we argue and then nine hundred and ninety nine times we make up. In any other circumstances a hundred arguments would end the relationship, ours is connected through rope. Through Kinbaku our love and romance binds our hearts and deepens our connection over time.

Topics of discussion
:
-Reflection of my forty years of Kinbaku photography, and what’s ahead of me
– Tales of adventure and confessions of Shibari of my partner Miho
– The difference of Kinbaku as practiced in Japan and the United States, based on my observations on my visits to the USA.
– Rope work
– Shibari poses or the creation of a story in an image

When: June 16, 7PM9

Where:  Kink.com, San Francisco Armory,  1800 Mission St,

ABOUT Norio Sugiura: Born April 9th, 1942

For many years he collaborated with Mr. Dan Oniroku, the famed erotic novelist, BDSM master, kinky impresario and Kinbaku master. Then in 1974 he became a freelance photographer, shooting for many cult classic Japanse BDSM magazines and published many exceptional erotic BDSM photography collections. For over four decades, he’s worked with some of the most amazing performers, models and rope artists in Japan.


http://www.sugiuranorio.jp/e/

https://www.facebook.com/sugiuranorio

Twitter: @sugiuranorio

Tickets $20
Buy tickets: https://advance.zozi.com/express/activities/3251

Facebook RSVP:
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Fetlife RSVP:

https://fetlife.com/events/257912

A special lecture brought to you by RopeDojo.com & Midori’s Fire Horse Productions, Inc.

Midori

Midori has organized a series of special, intimate classes and events in her New York salon space. She invites all of you to enjoy a place where playing, learning, exploring and enjoying are the priority!

October 24: Kinesthetic Rope: Dynamic Movements to Revolutionize Your Play
Learn the foundation and secret of truly hot rope bondage play through this ingenious and unusual class.

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/207902859341517/
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/132460
Purchase tickets at http://planetmidori.ticketleap.com/nyc-kine/

October 25: Bawdy Luxe, presented by Dixie de la Tour and Midori
The Nation’s Original Sex+Storytelling series featuring Real People & Rockstars sharing their Bona Fide Sexual Exploits in 10 minutes or less
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/150993415044349/?ref=ts&fref=ts
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/131419
Purchase tickets at http://bawdyluxe.eventbrite.com/

October 29: Real Life Protocol & Etiquette: The 4 Environments with Laura Antoniou & Midori
Learn practical parameters of creating effective protocol for your M/s and D/s relationships that seamlessly mesh into real life and all levels of different formalities.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/273257806111059/
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/132552/v2
Purchase tickets at http://planetmidori.ticketleap.com/nyc-protocol/

October 30: Afternoon Oasis of Pleasure: Play, Learn, Explore & Enjoy
Escape to Midori’s gorgeous private weekday afternoon oasis of delight in the heart of New York & indulge your sensual desires!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/349429838484530/
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/132590
Purchase tickets at http://planetmidori.ticketleap.com/nyc-oasis/

October 30: Rope Bondage: Hands-on Body Harness
Learn to create gorgeous, effective and arousing rope body harnesses! Body harnesses are fantastic for all types of bodies and many different sorts of scenes.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/534006973279969/
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/132591
Purchase tickets at http://planetmidori.ticketleap.com/nyc-harness/

Why not enjoy both the Oasis and the class? Buy tickets for both at a discount!

November 1: Art of Feminine Dominance
Using a special technique she developed, Midori will help you to find your inner power femme archetype, allowing you to pursue erotic fulfillment of sensual power play.
at Purple Passion boutique. 211 West 20th st between 7th and 8th Avenues
Partner attendance encouraged
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/117030
Purchase tickets at http://store.purplepassion.com/servlet/Detail?no=12…

These are limited attendance events and spaces will fill up quickly!

Midori by Steve Diet Goedde

 

WASHINGTON DC

Sat. 4/14 – Sun 4/15 Weekend w/Midori | DC Rope Art

Sat 4/14 “Kinesthetic Rope” & “Passionate Dynamic Play”
Sun 4/15 “Speed & Flow Drills” & “Predicament Bondage”

More info: https://fetlife.com/events/93063/v2

NEW YORK

Thu 4/19 “Pink Japan: Contemporary Sex Culture” | Museum of Sex

What exotic erotic adventures happen behind the closed doors of Japan? Come to this fascinating presentation and find out!

From cuisine, music, fashion, technology to anime, Japan’s cultural influences on the West is immense. In many ways the Japanese erotic cultures also influence today’s Western tastes. Yet the daily realities of Japan’s sexual habits, sexual consumer culture, gender relations, and sensual subcultures world remain hidden to us, creating an aura of mystique. In this funny and insightful presentation, join Midori for a double-expatriate’s personal tour of Japan’s hidden sexual culture today. Come early to browse through her collection of naughty magazines, rare books, unusual flyers and other goodies from Japan. Midori is a Kyoto born, Tokyo-raised, Japanese-American author and sex educator based in San Francisco. She is well versed with the contradiction that is 21st Century Japan and possesses a keen insight into culture and sexuality.

More info/tickets: http://bit.ly/HBRm2k

Tue 4/24 “Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice” | Long Island Leather N Roses

The Geishas and Courtesans were masters of the art of seduction. Their most potent skill was the use of the erotic voice and sensual story telling. Learn how to use the hypnotic magic of the voice to seduce and arouse your lover long before you enter the bedroom. Incorporating seductive voice techniques learned in this class to heat up the bedroom and add spice to your erotic life. Mesmerize your lover and transport both of you to an erotic landscape. Learn how to build and enrich a powerful fantasy, practice effective voice techniques and spellbinding. You’ll learn techniques of finding out yours and your lovers fantasy, practice story telling skills and improve them with Midori’s gentle guidance. Spicy demos, practical exercises, tips. Delightful class for couples and singles

More info: http://bit.ly/InCPIX

Wed 4/25  “Rope: Flow & Speed Drills” | The Iron Bell Academy, Astoria

Description: Whether you’re an expert or have only taken one rope bondage class, this experience will help to make your rope play more confident, smooth and intuitive. This class will cover essential skills for fluid, effective and graceful motion in tying. Great flow and speed skills add to dynamic scenes with power emotional and play potential, increases confidence, allows for greater creative thinking and connection with your partner. After the initial discussion, the students will break into pairs for series of timed drills and challenges. These are non-competitive exercises designed to increase your speed and confidence while identifying areas to improve. Everyone will be asked to, and will be expected to do the exercises.

More info/tickets: http://bit.ly/IblMpT

TH 4/26  “Humiliation Play” | Purple Passion

Why do people get off on being embarrassed or humiliated? Is this a style of play you’ve struggled to understand? Do you want to understand how to do this well and avoid disasters? What are the potential psychological ramifications? What’s different for a one-time scene vs. playing with your life partner? Emphasizing emotional safety throughout, Midori will explore a wide range of play from light teasing and embarrassment to serious humiliation. What’s the difference between a healthy and constructive scene and one that is destructive and harmful? She will share with you a unique model she’s developed to better understand and create an experience that is hot for all the players involved. Are you trying to better understand this difficult subject? Have you questioned yourself on your desires or ability to make another squirm? Or have you ever secretly wanted to be put on the spot or shown how really naughty you are? Then this class is for you! All attendees get 15% store discount before and after the workshop

Info/purchase tickets: http://bit.ly/Iwkesk

Sat 4/28 – Sun 4/29     Rope Bondage Dojo® | The LGBT Center

Are you SERIOUS about improving your rope bondage skills?
Do you want to erotically please and sexually pleasure your partner using rope?
Do you want to learn how to be a better bottom or receiver of rope pleasures?
Ready to get to the next level of education?
Do you want to do safer rope suspension bondage the right way?
If so, you’ll love Rope Bondage Dojo®.
It’s designed with a multi-skill level layered education style to create an exceptional learning experience for both experienced and novice players.
In two days, your rope skills will improve dramatically through16 hours of concentrated, personalized and hands-on education by Midori and DeLano, two of the best instructors around. It’s a weekend-long immersion and training course unlike any other!

Pre-registration required.

More info/register: www.ropedojo.com

PHILADELPHIA  

A Weekend with Midori | Sexploratorium & AxD Gallery

Fri 4/20. 7pm         “JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man”
Sat 4/21. 2pm         “Hands-on Rope Bondage”
Sat 4/21. 5pm         “Rope Body Harnes”
Sun 4/22. 1pm         “Flogging: Amazing Hands-on Training”
Sun 4/22. 4pm         “Art of Feminine Dominance”

Info: http://passion101classes.com/

BALTIMORE

Mon 4/23  “Art of Feminine Dominance” | Sugar

Elegance, power and confidence. Do you want to know hot to be a dominant without being a bad cliche? How do you find a sexy style of erotic dominance that’s authentic to you? Using a special technique she developed, Midori will help you to find your inner power femme archetype, allowing you to pursue erotic fulfillment of sensual power play. Not your typical how to class, you’ll discover the difference between constructive and destructive desires and point you towards ways of bringing satisfaction in bedroom play for both you and your partner.Midori will share with you her secrets of the feminine art of dominance. She will discuss the psychology, practical exercises, techniques, fashion, how to discover what makes your partner weak-kneed and more. This class is not limited to a gender, but for all who harbor the powerful woman within! Something for everyone from the novice to the experienced player. All genders and partners welcome.

Info/Tickets: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/225508

ABOUT MIDORI

Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures. While considered a pivotal figure in the Leather and BDSM communities, she is also seen as a critic, activist and agent provocateur.

Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice.

Her writing is extensive, ranging from numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, to instructional books. In 2001, she wrote the first English language book on Shibari, “The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” when Japanese rope play was still limited to a niche audience. Her other major books to this date include “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and “Master Han’s Daughter.”

In 2001 she founded Rope Bondage Dojo®. She has trained many cadres and still leads many Dojos each year. Later she formed ForteFemme, a unique women’s dominance weekend training and empowerment intensive.

Beyond her role as an educator, she’s a passionate artist exploring the fringes of desire and identity. Exhibiting and performing internationally, she has also presented as artist in resident at Das Arts (Netherlands) and Tanzquartier Wien (Austria). She is often caught committing acts of installations, performances, sculpture, photography and general art pranks.

Born and raised in Japan, she served in the US Army while earning her psychology degree from University of California, Berkeley. She now calls San Francisco her home, which she shares with her wonderful spouse and severely spoiled four legged furry beings. Learn more about her projects at www.PlanetMidori.com and her art at www.Ranshin.com.

Want to learn about rope bondage? Frustrated with short workshops and demos? Do you want personalized attention to improve every aspect of your rope techniques? Are you ready for the disciplined approached to take you to the next level? Have you wanted to know what Midori teaches her personal rigger apprentices? Are you a total rope beginner with the motivation to move past your hesitation and blow your lover’s mind with hot scenes? Are you a master of the basics who’s ready for a real challenge?

Midori, international sexuality educator, is presenting her exclusive weekend intensive training in Japanese rope bondage in New York City, April 28-29. This event provides the opportunity for people of all skill levels to receive personalized instruction in rope bondage. Midori and her co-presenter, DeLano of DeLano Bound, share the heart and soul of the rope bottom experience during this concentrated weekend workshop that includes 16+ hours of instruction with lots of hands-on practice.

Two intensive days to build up rope skills from solid foundations, speed, effectiveness, and safe introduction to suspension. Covering essentials for tops, bottoms, for novices as well as the experienced.

Includes: 16+ hours of intensive training from four Dojo Cadres. Emphasis will be on balanced education focusing on “Heart-Mind-Hand” approach, covering rope skills, scene managements, psychology, history and more for both those who tie and those who are tied.

PLEASE NOTE THAT THE CLASS HOURS ARE DIFFERENT than the usual Dojo, due to change in facility hours. We’ll start at 12:00pm and end at 8pm.

Included: morning nosh, delicious lunches, afternoon snacks & other goodies.

This is the last time this Dojo will be given on the East Coast in 2012.

For more information see the curriculum and FAQ at http://www.RopeDojo.com/

Registration  currently open – Preregistration required!