And many more!
Now, hand me my strap.
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From the category archives:
We’re gonna have some fun today;
it’s all because of you.
So grab your friends and make ‘em dance
a birthday boogaloo — on your birthday!
Happy birthday to you!
Today is Madeline’s birthday. I command you to go visit her site, and wish my beautiful and sexy darling a ‘happy birthday.’
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From my inbox this morning, a missive from Planned Parenthood Federation of America, whom I support and to whose services I’ve had the privilege of availing myself:
Since George W. Bush made the indefensible decision to put anti-birth control, anti-sex ed Eric Keroack in charge of the nation’s family planning program, Planned Parenthood has gathered more than 116,000 petitions protesting the appointment.Unbelievably, the man now in charge of America’s family planning program spent years as medical director of a group that thinks birth control is “demeaning to women.” Now, we’ve got to make it clear that we won’t let Keroack, Bush, or anyone else stand in the way of our efforts to safeguard and expand access to birth control and family planning.
On the first day of the new Congress,Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-NV), along with Senators Hillary Rodham Clinton (D-NY), Barack Obama (D-IL), and others, introduced the vitally important Prevention First Act (S.21). Passing this legislation is a key part of Planned Parenthood’s 2007 Prevention First agenda. We’re pressing Congress to fully fund family planning services, increase access to services through Medicaid, and protect teens with real sex education. Join Planned Parenthood in working with Congress on this commonsense health care legislation.
The time is ripe to make a significant change in the United States’ legislation of women’s health and family planning. You can read the actual bill here and be blown away by Section 2.
If you care about birth control, choice and women’s access to health care, please take a minute and complete Planned Parenthood’s form, which will send a letter supporting the Prevention First Act in your name to both your senators. It’s an easy, free way to show your support.
Thanks,
Madeline
See also:
Planned Parenthood Federation of America
International Women’s Health Coalition
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Madeline writes :
…Did you know that child support isn’t late until midnight on the the last day of the month? I sure as fuck didn’t.
Now I do.
And I had a choice between paying rent and daycare for Jack. Rent won, and he’s home with me until I can cough up five hundred bucks. This will, of course, make seeing clients difficult, but I really have no choice but to hope he’ll sit quietly (Yeah, right,) and watch a video while I massage naked people in the other room.
You know, I hate being dependent on the money their dad is supposed to send. Hate. It. I hate feeling vulnerable. I know things will turn around and that this is just a bump in the road, but it feels like a fucking mountain.
I hate asking for help, it just seems weak. But I’m going to, because I’m doing everything else I can think of and getting nowhere.
(more…)
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It is hard to say more about Madeline than I did yesterday. But I feel I have to before we start with this interview. She is a fun, flirty person to talk to with two of my favorite traits in women: An articulate, thoughtful nature, and a steadfast refusal to take my crap. I hope you enjoy.
ParadigmK: Okay, so you’ve been blogging about a year and half. What started you?
Madeline: Yeah, it’ll be two years in February. I’ve always kept a journal, I’ve always talked about my sex life, blogging sort of became a natural extension of those. Two things I love–sex and writing–together at last. I’d started to blog once or twice and gave it up because I wasn’t motivated, I guess.
PK: And what has you motivated now?
M: Well, I got bored just detailing my encounters. I like approaching the writing as writing, which happens to have a lot to do with some very hot sex. Anyone can write about sex I wanted to do it well, and see how that went (more…)
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By Madeline Glass
I’m really not into written erotica.
I should say, I’m very particular about written erotica. I don’t pay for it like, ever, and truth be told, I would rather be having sex of my own and writing about it than reading about someone else’s experiences. Yeah, I know, I’m a sexblogger. It’s a double standard.
Given that fact I was a bit surprised at myself when, a couple months ago, I told Rachel Kramer Bussel that I’d be interested in writing a review of Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists edited by Rachel and Alison Tyler.
Mostly, I just wanted the book for free.
I was also being a bit masochistic, since I’d gotten the call for submissions last year for the anthology. I was too much of a perfectionistic chicken to send a piece for consideration and now I wanted to see what other writers had come up with on the subjects of voyeurism and exhibitionism.
But mostly I just wanted the book for free.
When I saw the envelope in my mailbox from Cleis Press, I ripped it open and carried it with me to run errands. I left it in plain sight on the front seat of my car, parked in a downtown lot for all to see. I held it, title out, while standing on line at the post office.
When I finally got home late in the evening and was preparing for bed, I eyed the book next to my keys by the door. I picked it up. I read the first story: Curtain Call by Thomas Roche. As the woman sat naked and masturbating on a chair, her curtains open to the apartment across the way, I stood nude, flamingo-like in the middle of my living room, lights blazing, my silhouette clearly visible through the blinds at the window.
Because I’m an exhibitionist.
“Hee!” I giggled at the end, automatically turning the page to the next story, interested in seeing what the next author had in store. The faintest bit of arousal hinted its presence in my core and I read on and on. I shut myself in my room, taking pleasure in reading stories about spying on lesbians in showers, a dying poet composing as he watches two men perform for him, and the hijinks of two vacationing women watching the couple below them in the hotel through knots in the old wood floor.
Because I’m a voyeur.
I kept going back, over the next few days, stealing a few minutes here and there, reading one or two stories from the collection of twenty. Some of them are slamming hot, others less so. Straight and bent, kinky and vanilla, there’s some of each. Part of the appeal of reading is to get to the next piece. Just to see if it will be my favorite.
The experience of reading Caught Looking has been interesting because, while I don’t jerk off to the images I read about on those pages, I’m much more interested in the writers who’ve penned them. It’s nice to read stories with proper grammar and punctuation, with plot and characters, not simply “He fucked me like this and I fucked him like that.”
That sex writing certainly has a place, and I do enjoy reading it, especially if it is properly punctuated, involves my friends and has something to keep my interest, but I am now happily aware of more writers of fine erotica and appreciative of their work.
And while I’m still more likely to have my own hot sex and write about it online, maybe I won’t be such a chicken when the opportunity to contribute to another collection comes along.
Caught Looking is available at Amazon.com and your local bookstore.
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I’m back from 10 days in France. I stayed in an ancient farmhouse, which my friend has been fixing up for the past 20 years. This part of France was formerly referred to as Armorica. In a local museum, I was amused to see a reference to King Arthur, and Viviane, ‘an evil fairy.’
We toured the countryside, took long walks on windswept, rocky beaches, looked at early Christian churches and giant rock menhirs, shopped local markets and cooked enormous meals.
I’ve eaten so much butter, cheese and buckwheat crepes avec jambon fromage, I probably resemble a giant tomme myself.
Since I missed Cinekink, and the Damon and Hunter NY premiere, I consoled myself in my Montparnasse hotel room by watching Comstock Productions‘ Marie and Jack.
I also went to hear jazz piano legend Mulgrew Miller. And if ‘michi michi’ is what I think it is…I got propositioned! Ew.
If I’d only been in town a few days later, I could’ve seen Dita Von Teese at the Crazy Horse!
It was great to videz la tete (clear the head) but I am happy to be home, in my own bed, with an English keyboard.
Thanks to my dear colleagues Madeline and Jessica for holding down the fort!
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Friday: Opening night at the New York Film Festival, The Queen. Spotted: Mary McFadden, Sylvia Miles (in top hat, smoking jacket, and walking cane), Rip Torn, journalists George Whipple and Richard Reeves, James Cromwell (he plays Prince Phillip), Brian De Palma, Phil Collins, director Stephen Frears (in business suit and red snakers), Helen Mirren (plays Queen Elizabeth, gave the royal wave after the movie), Taylor Hackford (movie director and Mirren’s husband), producer Scott Rudin, Cindy Adams (wearing orange Uggs that appeared to be molting).
Saturday: Roundtable interview for Audacia Ray‘s upcoming book, Naked on the Internet, then a potluck dinner with Perverts’ Saloon. Several out of town visitors – Madeline, Jessica Haralson, Mikey Mongol and Meg. Potluck is great because everybody brings something, but it’s still lots of work. I used FreshDirect for the first time and it arrived on time. You can also order wine (they partner with Best Collars). All the wines arrived ice cold, a real no-no. Do they load the trucks up the night before? Last time I’ll order wine from them. Lots of snogging amongst some of the guests.
Sunday: Lunch downtown, then two more movies: The Go Master (an exquisite film, but I had a nice nap for part of it) and Woman on the Beach.
Oy, I’m tired.
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I’ve been really, really quiet here, because Sam Sugar has been cracking the whip. He’s assembled a formidable group of bloggers (including the beauteous and brainy Audacia Ray and Madeline Glass, into the SexNotWork blog network, which’ll cover a broad range of the adult space (or ‘jizz biz’, as the Sugar Daddy likes to say).
Audacia’s SugarClick was in beta last week and launched for real yesterday. It rates and reviews sex blogs. It’s already gotten mentioned in Wired’s Sex Drive Daily, AVN Online and Fleshbot and is getting around 1, 000 unique visitors a day.
Gulp. No pressure, nooooo. Which leads me to my new project.
TGP.com (‘fine pornography since 2006′) offers a little of this, and a lil’ of that, mixed in with daily links to hot galleries and sites. I’ve been slaving over a bunch of hot CPUs for a few weeks now and the writers are fantastic: Mikey Mongol, Elizabeth, and Madeline Glass. Please come visit.
We’ve also got a link trade going on the sidebar and I’m looking forward to spreding the traffic around. Ya think the Sugasm sends around a lot of readers? Wait’ll you see this! If you’re a webmaster, you’ll also be able to submit a site or galleries (the form is coming real soon now).
Come over and visit us, my lovelies. Who’d have thunk blogging would have led to this?!
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The sex blog of my friend Jefferson is linked in various ways to those of his acquaintances, friends and lovers. To help readers follow the interactions and exchanges, here’s the latest roundup.
Jefferson
Fan Fiction Four
(“Well, whattya know? I no sooner send a shout out to Aliza than she responds with a nice surprise.”)
Dissolute
(“Rose gasped as I took my cock from her mouth.”)
Astonishing
(“Lucy, This morning, a little after 4:30, Collie woke me to say he had vomited. “)
Etiquette
(“Mitzi and I took in the air for a bit before heading back inside. She remained pretty blissed from her submission to Elena and the gang.”)
Madeline
You Always Remember Your First
(“Break out the champagne, dear readers, Madeline in the Mirror is a year old today.”)
The Return of Thomas
(“Jordan and I were chatting not long ago, she from her parents’ place for the holidays.”)
Flowers
(“Play it again, Momma.â€)
Marcus
room service
(“seamus and i had a romantic night. just the two of us. oops – i mean the three of us.”)
local flora and fauna
(seamus and i love our nude beach.”)
What I Did on my Summer Vacation
(“ok, well, it’s not summer. its winter… i know. otherwise i wouldnt have traveled all the way to saint martin in the first place.”)
Audacia
Request for cock pics
(“I cannot believe I am writing this: if you have a penis, would you email me a picture of it?”)
Housekeeping
(“I’ve been doing some serious housekeeping on some of the pages of my website. “)
Almost media darling
(“Last week, I got a phone call from a major TV news network that was doing a story on sex work and Craigslist, and they were interested in interviewing me.”)
Whirlwind of awesomeness
(“This week has been one of those weeks during which I am so psyched about my life, my projects, the stuff I’m reading, the stuff I’m writing, and the possibilities of everything that I just cannot sleep like a normal person.”)
Phone Sex Mysteries
(“Like any good, obsessive researcher, I subscribe to a bunch of different Google alerts.”)
Just a Girl
(“Here’s the thing: sure I’m smart and cool and have big squishy boobs and all, but I am also mildly friendly (except early in the morning, if you’re invading my personal space in public, or if you think you can come between me and my ham sammiches).”)
Whaleman Dick
(“So what have I been up to lately? You mean other than sloppy making out with friends at Rachel Kramel Bussel’s erotica reading series, being gifted with a pointy knife by Joe Gallant, and drinking whiskey til 4 a.m. on a Wednesday?”
Meg
girls’ night
(“the next morning, i wake slowly.”)
Maleslut (J)
Stunned
(“Basically I got a fertility test done last week (a friend asked if I would be open to helping her conceive). And I am 100% sterile.”)
Constructive Criticism
(“So, the sexblog extravaganza, with all of the farm animals and other fun things, was pretty freaking cool. “)
Shelby
lamas
(“This is so awesome, the world needs to see it”)
well well well…
(“Sex calms nerves before public speaking – study”)
ebay
(“shameless plug: The anonymous kid needs your help! Buy his crap!”)
Colton
Walking around
(“So. Apparently, I’m single.)
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On the morning of the blogger meet up last week, I told Viviane that though I was looking forward to meeting all my fellow NYC sex bloggers, I was almost looking forward to reading about it more. And so I present to you the writing about the meeting, by the bloggers who lived it:
Viviane: “I was apprehensive. What would it be like to have 15 people most who’ve never met each other, all in the same apartment? Would they blow my cover? Would they get creepy and take their clothes off?”
Lex Konrad, Naked Loft Party: “Even in this age of instantaneous feedback, hacking away at a keyboard can be a sad, lonely thing. It’s good to shake someone’s hand, to look a fellow traveler in the eye, to participate in a community—something larger than yourself—and put your creative demons out of their misery, if only for a short while.”
Audacia Ray, Waking Vixen: “It was really cool to come face to face with people whose words and innermost thoughts I’ve encountered (by which I mean, “masturbated toâ€) and in some cases folks who I’ve had ongoing email correspondence with. It was really clear that this event was the beginning of something, not just a one-time fluke.”
J, Male Slut: “Viviane, the sexy hostess of last evening made a comment to Lex about my blog. She said, “J’s blog is what Jefferson calls, direct narrative (or something like that, let me know & I will change) he tells it straight through, Bam-bam-bam-bam. STILL extremely dirty and makes my panties wet.” i might have made up that last part, but it is probably true.` I was kind of just listening. But when she said that I kind of went, “WUH†a bit of a wake up.”
Selina, Sex in the City – the Real Version: “Went to our first ever sex bloggers’ meet-up. Jefferson wasn’t there, but joined us via camera, so I showed him my tits, so that he could see what he was missing. Clearly, it started a trend. People were coming up to the camera all night to expose their breasts. The Plainbellied Sneech even took off his tie!”
Charlie Bucket, Plain-Bellied Sneetch: “Let me try to capture my highlights: Tony Comstock’s observations about the intersection of memoir and porn — Anakalia’s adventures in immigration law — PornoJim’s explanation of his unique ouevre — Chelsea Girl’s ironic “No One Cares About Your Blog” T-Shirt stretched over a chest about which One Cares Deeply — the erstwhile badmaninabadplace who is now a cautionary tale for the ages — Les’s full body lay out to retrieve Viviane’s wine key — debating the merits of lollipops and neckwear with Jefferson — davening with Madeline — and of course, talking relative New York City childhoods with my new best friend, Selina.”
Cherry Bomb, Queen of Cream: “We all came from wonderfully varied backgrounds as pornstresses, activists, pornographers, swingers, models, general perverts, but all of us had inspired ideas we were looking to discuss.”
Anakalia, Salacity: “I was disappointed that neither Freya nor Mimi turned up, both of whom I was literally jumping with excitement to meet, but such is the way with these meet-ups. Jefferson and Madeleine couldn’t make it, but at least we saw them and their nipples on the webcam. And Madeleine? Smokin’!”
Chelsea Girl, Pretty Dumb Things: “It’s always interesting to meet a person whose words you’ve read, but whom you’ve never seen. It’s more interesting to meet the person when the words you’ve read are deeply intimate, the private of privates, the rarely speakable, the gutturally utterable. It’s yet more interesting when there’s a room full of them, these unseen people and their unspoken intimates.”
sexblogs, sex blogs
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I’ve been to a marvelous party
with Noona, and Nana, and Nell.
It was in the fresh air,
and we came as we were,
and we stayed as we were,
which was hell.
Poor Lulu got fried on Chianti,
and talked about esprit de corps.
I knew the excitement was bound to begin,
when Laura got blind on Dubonnet- and gin,
and scratched her veneer with a Cartier pin.
I couldn’t have liked it more.- Noel Coward
I was apprehensive. What would it be like to have 15 people most who’ve never met each other, all in the same apartment? Would they blow my cover? Would they get creepy and take their clothes off? Don’t worry, Lex Konrad reassured me – ‘we all have skin in the game.’
People came bearing cheese and bread, cupcakes and DVDs, beer and hummous. Despite liberal substance abuse, everyone was interested and interesting.
Out of the the conversational quilt, the words ‘sex’ and ‘blog’ must’ve popped out dozens of times. We all admitted we were a little nervous, but then we were all saying ‘wow! this is great! Why didn’t we think to do this earlier?’ And plotted when we do it again. The word ‘salon’ also kept popping up, much to my amusement.
It was a smashing success, literally. That would have been the full length bathroom mirror, held only by two brackets, crashing to the floor. There was much flashing of boobage from both sexes for Madeline and Jefferson via webcam. And vice versa. Also, much rebooting of the laptop. I think the last guests left around 1 AM. No, there are no photographs. You’ll just have to wait for folks to write it up.
Thank you all for coming. How wonderful it was to meet all of you. I only wish I had more time to talk with each of you!
Now you’ll have to excuse me. I’m off to watch my new copies of Marie and Jack and Xana and Dax on my portable DVD player, courtesy of the the adorable Tony Comstock….
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