- The Great Escape: The Tale of a Recent Divorcée
- The Sex Diaries of Six New Yorkers
- The Waiting Room: Voluntary Virgins on Why They Like It That Way
- What Are You Like in Bed?
- Of MILF and Men: The Sexy-Mom Phenomenon
- The Lesbian Bride’s Handbook
- The Mind of the Married Man
- High Infidelity: A True Tale of Friendship, Adultery, and the Legal System
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…With full acknowledgement that men’s tastes in women are as unpredictable as the plotline of “24,” these are some of things that many men value in “the one.”
A Woman with a Passion in Something Other Than Him
Yes, it’s nice to be doted over. Yes, it’s nice to be pampered. Yes, it’s nice to be with a woman who showers you with compliments, neck kisses, and all of her attention. But there’s a virtual Great Wall of China between a fleeting, flirtatious glance and the kind of attraction that can last a lifetime. Many men say they like a woman who’s immersed in something else other than the relationship — be it her work, or her sport, or whatever her “thing” is. Why? The passion she shows for something else confirms her inherent goodness, her personal drive, her independence. All pluses in the woman we’re hoping to spend a few decades with.
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…We got back to her room and honestly I’d only intended to kiss her. But the way she opens to me, the way she invites me in, every time, at every movement, with every gesture of her body, she doesn’t turn me away, doesn’t close me off, so when kissing becomes making out, making out becomes hands all over feeling her muscles her bones her curves, hands all over become palm, fingers on her thigh, on her stomach, and then she does this gentle movement of her knees, parting, I just want to enter her, oh my god with such a force I feel it driving through me.
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Jessica Guynn, Chronicle Staff Writer
While it may be tough for the middle-aged of Silicon Valley to find a perfect partner, it’s never been easier for the young and the restless in the high-tech industry to make a love connection.
Members of this uninhibited generation can hit the launch-party circuit or hook up with the opposite sex using the very technology they are helping develop, a growing trove of Web sites where you can search for someone who shares your feelings and fetishes.
“They are using the actual tools of Web 2.0 to find more effective ways to get laid,” said San Francisco writer and humor columnist Min Jung Kim. (more…)
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The filmmaker has released a new Valentine’s Day album called A Date with John Waters. It’s a compilation of love songs including Mink Stole’s “Sometimes I Wish I Had a Gun” and the late Edith Massey (aka the Egg Lady) singing “Big Girls Don’t Cry.”
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He plays “If I Knew You Were Comin’ I’d've Baked A Cake ” – I met Eileen Barton when I was in college.
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Do you have one of those relationship dealbreaker lists? You know, the list that describes the qualities you have to have in a man, along with the qualities you simply won’t tolerate?
If you’ve taken the time to write such a list, I’m impressed!
Now put it away.
Then, being as honest as you can be with yourself, make two brand new lists:
- The “Good Qualities I Bring to a Relationship†list
And…
- The “Not-So-Good Qualities I Bring to a Relationship†list
Why these two lists? Let me give you an example from my own life.
During a bad fight with a man years ago, I caught a glimpse of my reflection in a mirror. I was more upset at the person I saw in that mirror than I was at the person across the room, hurling putdowns at me.
In the moment, I knew that being with this man would continue to bring out my worst qualities. In fact, with him, I was turning into someone I really didn’t want to be. And knowing that — even more than recognizing what a mean son of a bitch he was — made it impossible for me to stay in the relationship. (more…)
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