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Tie Me to the Ends of Love: Part 2 (Rope Springs Eternal)

by Viviane on 12/09/2025

in bondage

Say I have somewhat ruthlessly tied my partner in a position for which she was unprepared. Unprepared? Some might say that’s bad form for a top, and I would beg their momentary indulgence. So, my partner is working hard with this position and is possibly breaking down a little before long… sooner than she’d like… and in recognition of this I add a bit more challenge to the picture, something subtle that shifts the focus of discomfort just enough to take her out of the mind that’s saying “I… can’t… do this…” and put her back into the body that’s feeling more and more with each passing moment.

While I can afford to appear aloof about all this shifty energy, she’s anything but: it’s really uncomfortable now and ere long she might want out, might even get a little irate, but she’s not using her safe signal. In a little while she might get vocally angry, which is easily frustrated with a gag, about which she’d be humiliated on top of her aching for release. But in the meantime we’ll all keep aware for a safe signal, or panic, or, hopefully, fuller and fuller consciousness and presence as her options fall by the wayside.

More. . . .

Part 3 is here.
Part 1 is here.

Kink dreams (San Francisco Bay Guardian)

by Viviane on 09/30/2025

in bdsm, bondage, porn, sex

528 cover1 Kink dreams (San Francisco Bay Guardian)

Van Darkholme, Peter Acworth, and Princess Donna in the Armory boiler room. Photo by Pat Mazzera

Peter Acworth’s fetish porn empire takes over the San Francisco Armory to create a new kind of dot-com

BY MOLLY FREEDENBERG

When it comes to BDSM porn peddlers Kink.com, apparently size does matter. At least, that’s how it seems now that the steamy studio has purchased the 200,000-square-foot San Francisco Armory. Suddenly, everyone wants to know: What’s the carnal concern going to do with all that space?

The answers are more diverse and ambitious than one might expect — ranging from creating a racy reality show to starting a perfectly PG-13 public community center. And thanks to the lascivious and lucrative imagination of Kink.com founder Peter Acworth, it might all be possible.

CONCEPTION AND CONTROVERSY

Though Kink.com has been producing independent niche fetish sites like Hogtied.com, WiredPussy.com, and FuckingMachines.com for the Folsom Street Fair crowd for more than 10 years — first from Acworth’s rented Marina District apartment and then from the Porn Palace on Fifth and Mission streets — it wasn’t until Acworth purchased the historical landmark in the Mission District, and was met with opposition, that the provocative porn empire really made it onto the public’s radar screen.

The armory, which was a training ground for the National Guard prior to its decommissioning 30 years ago, has been the center of controversy before. But that was mostly in-fighting between potential developers. Stringent zoning requirements and necessary but cost-prohibitive renovations discouraged buyers, leaving the Moorish behemoth on 14th and Mission streets vacant and outside public scrutiny.

But everything changed when Acworth got involved. His intended commercial use, for shooting scenes for all of Kink’s Web sites, complied with planning codes. And he didn’t need to do expensive renovations before he could start using, and profiting from, the building: what could be more perfect for bondage shoots or movies about women fucking machines than dungeons in disrepair? The only thing more ideal than the structure itself, according to Acworth, was its location in the heart of America’s most fetish-friendly city. “You couldn’t have dreamt up a more perfect place than a castle in the middle of San Francisco,” says Acworth, who purchased the armory for $14.5 million in 2007 and started operations in January of this year. “It’s like divine intervention.”

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V. Solar Eclipse (Mistress Yin)

by Viviane on 08/13/2025

in bdsm, bondage

It’s hot. I texted her to stand outside, five steps away from the front door. I can see her on my screen. V., standing still, stoic, as pedestrians move around her up and down the street. I can see her stillness, standing stoically, as the sun bears summer down onto her shoulders. Her stoic stand is a cooling temple, she’s waiting inside herself, as the minutes click forth and everything moves: the 1 train tunnels through concrete way below; planes skid over the bare sky, where buildings and lives were shredded from time, a war is warring; speed bags clock the rotation of padded fists, men strike one another in sportive battle; the sun, moon, and earth align and for a few minutes in China the yin engulfs the yang. From within the stillness of my dojo, I watch V stand and I slip my fingers under my skirt.

Twenty five minutes go by and I text her again to come in.

Miles’ Bitch’s Brew tweaks the air.

Chains. Locks. Cane. Rope. Needles. Fist.

She comes.

As do I.

mistressyin: V. Solar Eclipse.

Join me at Kinky Carnage

by Lolita Wolf on 07/28/2025

in bondage, Events, Fetish & Kink

10ksqplayarea Join me at Kinky Carnage

Come to Kinky Carnage at the Black Phoenix Dungeon in Philadelphia on Saturday, August 2nd at 9pm.

Demonstrations by Lolita Wolf, Jocasta of Venus Ropes, Zelda, PyroSadist and others. Rope Suspension, Caning, Fire Play, Flogging, Spanking and Whippings. Games and prizes. Venus Ropes will be giving away 1000 feet of nylon rope throughout the night.

At midnight, you can participate in a game of Shibari Twister where you’ll get tied up! Other games include CBT Marble Toss, Human Pinata, Clothespin Contest and Latex Painting. Yes! We will be looking for volunteers to participate! Come and learn, experience and have fun!

Buy your tickets in advance here. Dungeon location will be emailed after ticket purchase. Please print out a copy of the receipt and bring it with you to show proof of payment. All attendees will be expected to sign a waiver and show proof of age. I hope to see you there!

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Sugasm #140

by Viviane on 07/16/2025

in bondage, galleries, sex blogs, sugasm

eve Sugasm #140

Photo: Eve (gODDESS)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment
”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Chill Pleasure

BDSM & Fetish
Bathroom bang
Bros Not Hoes – F/m Spanking Video Clip
Cock training
Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server
Games Grown Ups Play
The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)
My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things
New spanking gallerie – Two girls spanked
Religion and BDSM
Rope
TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!
Your Slut

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?
Fetish Safety – Branding
The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Advanced Exhibitionism
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged
Distraction
Fucking no foreplay
Getting to fuck the neighbor 9
Him
HNT – Peach
Insanity never felt so good
Interludes – part 1
Memoir Of A Married Woman
Popping His Cherry
Re: Dinner Last Night
“Red Bottoms” (Complete)
Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds
That Time of the Month
Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work
Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina
Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…
Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics
Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire
Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?
Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet
Calstar Spanking – Severe deep stripe marks
Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video
Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer
Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved
HNT – A bit cheeky
HNT – Purple Lace
Making Love to the Camera
Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor
Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Catalina loves Lochai
Comstock Films
Drink Semen for Better Health
Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts
January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play
The Monday Buzz: The Bandito
Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum
Product Research: Blow Job Dildo
Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…
Finding out your good friends are swingers
Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun
Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”
Silence.

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

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