May 2010

Thursday, May 27
TES Queer SIG: ‘‘Sex, Grease, and Leather − Bootblacking’’ with Jim

Friday, May 28
NYC TNG Meeting
DSF: “Wet and Wild BDSM party“
Paradise Lost: “Unholy- AntiVirtues”

Saturday, May 29
Submit
Wicked NYC

Sunday, May 30
LSM New Member Safety/Orientation
Instigate: “Notes of a Reluctant Daddy” w/ Nayland
NYC TNG Meeting
Suspension

Monday, May 24

Tuesday, June 1
TES: ‘‘‘Roleplay: Everything from Sick to Silly’’ with Mistress Coraline

Wednesday, June 2
Pleasure Salon
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s SIG: ‘‘NYC TNG & DM/sw’’
Vendetta “Meet and Beat” NYFM Opening night party

Bobbi Starr and Katie Kox on WhippedAss.com

TES Fest 2010

by Viviane on 05/26/2024

in Events, sex

Location: Piscataway, NJ

TES Fest  is the annual gathering for the BDSM and sex-positive communities to celebrate the steps TES‘s founding fathers took in 1971:  the opportunity to find our freedom.

Taking place over the Fourth of July weekend, TES Fest is the premiere event in the NYC Metro region for everyone (from amateurs to seasoned veterans) to socialize, learn new skills and simply have a great time. With classes and special events covering the gamut of topics and special interests, TES Fest allows people to explore, educate and entertain themselves in a healthy, safe and sane environment.

TES Fest 2010 will be held July 2-5, 2010 at a 3 star hotel in Piscataway, N. J. We will have the ENTIRE hotel for the weekend. There will be no shuttle buses to ride, everything all in the same place.

We have tons of classes, great vendors, and fabulous play-space setup by The Crucible. Come out and relax and play. No stress. Cool people. Who needs the beach when we have a pool all to ourselves? What more do you want for a holiday weekend.

See the TES Fest website for information about registering, presenters, special events, the event hotel, etc.

TES Fest Class list (subject to change)

Self Skills
– So You Want to Be a Slut?… Survival Tips on How to Do it Safely, Sanely, and Just Have Fun! – Aiden Fyre
– What is Queer?: Dissecting Sex, Gender and Orientation – Aiden Fyre
– They’re Sexy, I’m Not. How To Get Over It And Find You! – Coral
– Gender Transformation – Klawdya Rothschild
– The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-Eyed Monster – Lolita Wolf
– 7 Touchstones for Getting and Keeping Passionate Relationships Fostering & Establishing Leather Families – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Ouch
– Flogging 101 – If Boymeat Can Flog, So Can You! – Boymeat
– Spanking – Pat Baillie
– Advanced Caning – Coraline
– Massaging Masochists – Joshua HighTower
– Beginner Single Tail Whips – Master George
– Advanced Single Tail Whips – Master George
– Sufi-inspired strategies for pain processing – Rope Boi
– Yielding to Brutality: Punching and Kicking with Love – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Potpourri
– Electricity – Shockingly Affordable! – Boymeat
– Aural Sex: The Erotic Power of Music and Words – Coraline
– Feral Play – Joshua HighTower
– I’m a Barbie Girl: Doll fetishes and mindset – Ms. CherriesJubalie
– Cram Your Strawberries! Food Play from Nibbles to the Edge – Nayland
– Sade and Masoch: A History Lesson – Rope Boi

Edge
– Once a Month… Menstrual Play – Coral
– Straight to the Point: Erotic and Intense Play Piercing – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Bloodsports 201 – Sharrin Spector
– Rituals in Blood – Sharrin Spector
– Embarrass, Humiliate Degrade, Objectify: Basics of Psychological Status Play – Nayland
– Fireplay 101 – Pairadox
– Fireplay 201 – Pairadox
– I Ask The Questions Here: Military Style Interrogations – Sir Guy

Rope
– Rope Bondage for Beginners – Lolita Wolf
– Breaking it Down : Symmetrical Ties (Part I) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Breaking it Down : Asymmetrical Ties (Part II) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Arm Binders – Leon von Monkey Fetish
– Fancy Simple Knots You Can Pervert for Fun and Profit – Dov
– Throwing away the Book: Techniques to Take Your Bondage to the Next Level – Leon von Monkey Fetish
– Partial Suspension – Dov
– Suspension – Klawdya Rothschild
– Dancing in the Ropes: Adding Dynamics to your Scene – Ms. CherriesJubalie

Sex & Love
– Intro to CBT – Helga
– Sounds and Catheterization – Helga
– Get Back Into the Love in Your Life – Morgan Lewis, HMQ
– Sacred Sex and Sacred Whoredom – Klawdya Rothschild
– Squirting 101 – Sammi Sui
– Anal 101 – Strap-on Jo
– Strap-ons 101 – Strap-on Jo

D/s & M/s
– Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner – Sir Guy
– Daddy as an Act of Service – Pat Baillie
– Master/slave Relations: A Corporate Approach – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
– Using Protocols to Make Your Relationship Special – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
– Components of a Submissive’s Psychology – Sea
– Languages of D/s – Sea
– Healthy Surrender – tomo
– Living the Life 24/7 – tomo

NYC Pleasure Salon

Location:     Happy Ending, 302 Broome St. NYC  Hopstop

Cost: Free

We’re there the first Wednesday of every month. This event is free.

The Pleasure Salon has been created to build community, allowing sex-positive activists to cross-pollinate. Our gatherings bring together members of the BDSM, swinger, alternative gender, LGBTQ, sex-activist, sex educator, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, Pagan, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, porn, pervert and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex. (Let us know if we missed any one of you!) Through building networks in the sex-positive community, The Pleasure Salon hopes to help create a sex-positive world. It is a place for the open exchange of ideas and sensual expression.

Join us in building New York’s pleasure positive community, and bring your like-minded friends to this social gathering. The Pleasure Salon embraces respect, acceptance, and non-judgmental support in this public space.

In pleasure,
Patricia Johnson, Selina Fire & Mark Michaels
PS:  Save this date: Nude beach day, Sandy Hook July 24th. We’ll be joining the NJ Burners and NJ BiZone.

e[lust] #13

by Lolita Wolf on 05/24/2024

in sexbloggers

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #14? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Stuck – Since I first saw the picture he sent me I have had this visual stuck in my head, like a sweet thing lingering in the mouth…. wrists bound, tied to headboard–ankles bound, tied to baseboard– naked, exposed

Animalistic – I grabbed the back of your ponytail like I owned you. No protest. Only a moan. Fuck, how aroused were you? Even your kiss was desperate, wet, passionate; your body was on fire and it showed.

A Hot Afternoon – She took Grady’s hand and guided it between her legs. Grady’s instinct kicked in as soon as she touched Hatty’s tender clit and felt the wetness gathered there.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Confessional: Fixation/Addiction – In porn, both video and photo, I have little interest in the men. It’s the women who get my full attention, who arouse me. I seek them out. I flick past hetero couplings, bored. Blow jobs? Meh. Oh wait, close-up of her pussy? Her coming? Ok I’ll watch now.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Thanks for the mansplanation, but I greatly prefer my vibrator – His views on female masturbation (derived, clearly, from absolutely nothing legitimate) are so fucked up, so irritating, and so detrimental, that I want to punch him in the face. It is, truly, mansplaining at its finest.

See also: Pleasurists #75 and #76 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Pondering
An I thought us girls were supposed to be the confusing sex?
I get ragingly horny watching gay porn
Menopausal Body
Over-Rated
Snotty Blowjob
The Ethical Slut
What counts as kinky?
What Is Romance
Why We Swing

Sex News, Interviews, Politics and Humor

Strip Club Series – Part One – Club Super Sexe

Kink & Fetish

An Anal Fairy Tale
How I Turned My (Ex)Husband Into a Pervert Pt.1
In Her Place
Kinky
Love that Thang He Does
On Productivity, Insanity and Grilled Cheese Sandwiches
Rights and Responsibilities
Shoe shopping
Show Me Your Teeth
The Greek Slave
Voice

Erotic Writing

A Recurring Fantasy
almost
Awakenings
A Helping Hand
Bite me
challenge
des fumes
Exposed
Frankie Says Swallow
For your prompt review
Gardening
Glass Elevators
Haze
In The Boardroom With Brock
Microfantasy Monday, week 77: Rain, part 2
Monday Morning Flash – “Homebaking”

One of the Hottest Moments I Had as a Prostitute
Seven
the feast
Unexpected Pleasures
Used
Wet

Steve Holmes and Mia Lelani on SexandSubmission.com

Zoe Margolis, the writer behind the Girl With a One Track Mind blog and books, has won libel damages after the Independent on Sunday called her a “hooker” in a headline.Margolis launched a libel action against the newspaper after it referred to her as a “hooker” in a headline on an article on 7 March that she wrote for them, which was in the paper and online.The article, which was published with the headline “I was a hooker who became an agony aunt”, was about attitudes to women and sex.Margolis launched legal proceedings against the title's then-owner, Independent News & Media. The parties have reached an out-of-court settlement.

Congratulations, Zoe!

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