Thursday, December 31
TES-DSF-Paddles NYE Party – Gathering of the Tribes New Year’s Fetish Play Party & Arabian Slave Auction
Friday, January 1
Happy New Year!
Saturday, January 2
Sunday, January 3
MAsT Metro: “M/s mentoring: What it is and what it is not”
NYC TNG Meeting
New York Bondage Club
Monday, January 4
Tuesday, January 5
TES: ” What Do I Need Anyway? Relationship Negotiation from Ds to Poly†w/ Corey Alexander
Wednesday, January 6
Pleasure Salon with guest host Lolita Wolf
TES Spanking group
Ami Emerson, Bella Rossi, Adrianna Nicole and Hollie Stevens on
UltimateSurrender.com where the winners get to fuck the losers
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You have until Monday, Jan 4, 2010 to enter the enormous Fetlife giveaway!
Star Trek body painting (via @johannes_mono)
I participated in a discussion about privacy at the KinkonTap show. It’s broadcast live on Sundays 8 PM EST. There’s an accompanying chat room which you can participate in.
The web’s only BBS BDSM site: paddedkink.com (follow @kellyshibari).
Sex and the 405’s Weirdest Sex News of 2009.
Two nice blowjob sites; The Art of the Blowjob and Fellucia Blow.
Two blogs by phone sex operators: Phone Slut Confessions and Cameryn Mooore.
New video HD site: Scartlettblue.com
Anita Wagner analyzes the impact of the Newsweek polyamory article on the opposition
A retrospective show of Ellen Von Unwerth’s work, Fraulein runs until Jan 30th at Staley-Wise.
Susan Wright, author of To Serve and Submit and A Pound of Flesh, has a new book out, Confessions of a Demon.
The Daily Beast’s Decade in Sex.
Testosterone and the Trans Male Singing Voice (via Lee Harrington).
Happy New Year!
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You’ve heard of six degrees of separation, the sociology postulate-cum-parlor game popularized by John Guare’s play of the same name. The idea is that any two people on the planet may be connected by as few as five individuals. Connect yourself to Kevin Bacon and you’ve taken a hyperboost to your connectivity, as he is the apparent center of the six degrees universe.
My friends and I like to play six degrees of sex, which operates on the same principle, albeit in a somewhat sluttier derivation.
As it happens, anyone who plays the numbers with me gets cozy with the King, as I am five degrees of sex from Elvis. I slept with someone who slept with someone who slept with Ann-Margret who slept with Elvis. That’s a whole lot of shakin’ for me to pass on.
I’m fortunate to be linked to a pivot like Ann-Margret, as she’s had many affairs with the loose and famous. Because she slept with Warren Beatty, I’m six degrees of sex to Madonna. Sex with me leaves you seven degrees from Madge, which falls off the chart, but you do get a little shampoo in the bargain.
For a writing project, I’m collecting stories of six degrees of sex. Are you or someone you know six (or fewer) degrees of sex from an interesting connection? Perhaps it’s with a celebrity—hey, play your cards right and I can get you cozy with the King—or perhaps it’s via some other set of connections. Does your six degrees of sex led you circuitously back to a family member? Does it take you down Main Street, from fire department to post office to service station? Or perhaps it takes you back in time—a friend of mine, a gay man in his fifties, can trace six degrees of sex to Walt Whitman.
If you get lucky, you may find a prodigious pivot (like my Ann-Margret) who takes you in multiple directions. Curiously enough, it’s unlikely to be Kevin Bacon: he’s been married to Kyra Sedgwick for twenty years, and while it’s said that the couple likes their sex rough, they also apparently like it monogamous.
Think you’ve got a good story? Drop me a line at onelifetaketwo@gmail.com.
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Thursday, December 24
Friday, December 25
Merry Christmas
Saturday, December 26
Sunday, December 27
NYC TNG Sunday Party Night
Suspension party
New York Bondage Club
Monday, December 28
Tuesday, December 29
TES: “An evening remembering and celebrating Jack McGâ€
Wednesday, December 30
TES-TNG†“Crazy Glue Invisible Bondage and Infibulations†w/ Dov
Chad Rock, Spencer Reed, Jason Miller and
Van Darkholme on boundgods.com
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Editor’s Pick
- Eros and Isis Leo by Domina Doll
Their line of sensual adult toys are made from 100% silicone and are exquisite objects d’art. With names like Lancelot, Cleo and Leo the Lion, their inspiration lies in mythical eroticism and fervent fantasies. Each erotic object is disguised as a fine art collectable and resemble antiqued silver, jade or gold chess pieces or figurines.
Note: Every once in a while a toy comes along that simply takes my breath away, and I just can’t resist making it EP for the week, and this was one of those. There are tons of other amazing reviews this week, though too, it was difficult to choose!
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On to the reviews…
Vibrators
- Santa Duckie by Lady Evyl
- OhMiBod Freestyle by Domina Doll
- Mantric Miyakodori by namelesschaos
- Orion Secret by LikeSunshinedust
- JimmyJane Little Chroma by Domina Doll
- Fairy Mini Wand by Joanna Cake
- Miracle Massager by Julietia
- Precious Metal Gems by Mistress Kay
- TotalJoy Barbabelle by Domina Doll
- bSwish bCurious by Carrie Ann
- LELO Ina by Victoria
- OhMiBod Freestyle by ToyWithMe
- Ophoria Beyond 1 by Domina Doll
- Fairy Pocket Mini by jexhibitionism
- Venus Penis 2 by Julietia
Dildos
- Soju Sugar by Domina Doll
- Rainbow Mega Nubby by Melen’s Rayne
- Candy Cane by Sammi
- Mantric Sysil Edge by Saraid
- Whipspider Wave by toygirl
- Shiri Zinn Swarovski Glass Range by Domina Doll
- Purple Rain Wand by DarlingDove
Anal Toys
- Liberance by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
- Tantus Little Flirt by Amber of DivergentDance
- Anal Jewelry by Domina Doll
- Juli Ashton’s Anal Beginner Kit by DarlingDove
Toys for Cocks
- Tenga Flip Hole by Tales from the Porn Store
Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.
- Sliquid Sizzle by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
- Sex Tarts Electric Lemonade by Carrie Ann
BDSM/Fetish
- Leather Vampire Gloves by Mistress Kay
- Spartacus Lavish Nipple Clamps by Sammi
- Kinky Cuffs by Mistress Kay
- Strict Leather Heart Felt Petal Flogger by Domina Doll
Adult Books/Games
- 52 Weeks of Naughty Nights by Mina
- SM 101 by Mistress Kay
Adult Movies/Porn
- Courtney Trouble’s Speakeasy by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
- Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage by Sammi
- Bend Over Boyfriend by Wilhelmina Wang
- Art School Girls are Easy by Domina Doll
- PopPorn: The Guide To Making Fuck – Disc 1 by J.D. Bauchery
- The Curse of Macbeth by FrzKey
- Her Porn Volume 1 (Disc 1) – Scene 6 by The Porn Librarian
- Waterbed Nymphos by J.D. Bauchery
- Discipline Vol. 1 by FrzKey
Storage
- Tunti Illuminating Boudoir Toybox by Ashley
- ToiBocks by Domina Doll
Miscellaneous
- Vegan Jaguar Harness by Saraid
- Plus Size Strap-on Harness by Nadia West
- Fun Factory Smartballs Teneo by Undressed Reviews
- Stone Vaginal Eggs by Domina Doll
- Fun Factory Smartballs by Dr. Ruthie
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