October 2008


The posters displayed in Paris Métro stations show a slim woman in her 50s in a cocktail dress, reclining on a leather sofa. Her hair is natural, her makeup understated, her smile satisfied. In the foreground, a man, his torso nude, slips two 100-euro notes into his pocket.

The posters were advertising “Cliente,” a popular movie that revolves around clichés about prostitution and gigolos in France. Judith, the client, who is played by Nathalie Baye, one of France’s highest-paid actresses, is not a pathetic, lifted rich woman of a certain age and nothing to do. Rather, she is a hard-charging, 51-year-old television shopping-channel anchor and director who, after her marriage falls apart, wants good sex without strings and is willing to pay handsomely for it.

For Josiane Balasko, 58, the director, author and actress (she plays Judith’s sister), the goals were twofold: to shatter a long-held taboo in France and to send a positive message to middle-aged women who find themselves alone and wanting sexual fulfillment.

“Prostitution is the last sexual territory owned by men,” she said in an interview. “Men are in control of pleasure and have the right to buy it. Women do not. A lot of my friends are alone, lonely, divorced. They can’t always reinvent themselves with another man and a new family. So I decided to show a female client of a male escort. She’s not a victim. She is a woman who is in control of her life, her feelings, her sexual pleasure.”

Six years ago, Ms. Balasko could not sell the television screenplay. Its subject, she said, was considered “too raw, too hot.” After the book version became a best seller, it was easy to attract financial backing for a film.

“Cliente” comes at a moment when France is struggling with boundaries: the public portrayal of sex and sexuality, the limits of privacy for its public figures. This is the case, even though historically, the French are much less conflicted than Americans when it comes to sex.

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Beverly Hills and Berlin on Chanta’s Bitches

Thursday, October 30

Friday, October 31
TES Nightmare Menagerie Halloween Party w/ Antonia & Goddess Coko
The SMack! Zombie Fetish Ball
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, November 1
DSF: Darkside Halloween Fetish Ball

Sunday, November 2
LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MAsT Metro NY: “How to maintain your identity when you are not in an M/s relationship”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue: The Baroness’ Birthday and Masquerade Ball

Monday, November 3

Tuesday, November 4
TES: “Converting a Vanilla” w/ Margaret Davis

Wednesday, November 5
TES Equestrian Club (TEC): “Performing at a Fetish Event… How to create a Winning Performance Piece”
Pleasure Salon

Sugasm #151

by Viviane on 10/30/2025

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Photo: Argen-Teens.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #152? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Help, My Friend Says I Have an Ugly Vagina!
“Say no to vagina prejudice!”

“Kiss My Boots.”
“One of the more unexpected hairpin turns I navigated in my “Coming Out” into BDSM involved a series of moments that were deceptively simple, perhaps even innocent, in a way.”

Yours, Sir
“I felt and then heard a low rumble of a slightly sadistic chuckle from him.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sass And The Sadist

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Crying Game
Cute animals don’t belong in my pussy
HNT – Shaking that Arse
Searching for something as yet unknown
Shame on you, part 2 [podcasturbation]

Sex & Politics
But People Don’t See My Fetish As Sexy! How Do I Write About It?
Red is the New Black

BDSM & Fetish
BDSM, S&M and Sex And The City
Girl On Top
Got to Love Subby Friends
“He Calls me”SLUT”” ~I call him MASTER!
I know you
My Muse-15th entry
A Quiet Night In
Sweet VS Saucy
That’s a great way to spend an afternoon

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
HNT Lucky Heather 3
HNT: Shut me up…
Half-Nekkid Queyntes
New York Leather Weekend – Sunday
Sublime Nudes

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
A Cocktease Session with a Leg Harness and Dildo
FAQs on Jefferson’s Custody Case
Recession Sex Toys
Top Five Tuesday – Bisexual Movies
VibeReview Fantasy: Bendybeads

Sex Work
Humiliation with a Tiny-dicklet Caller
Sex Work And Compassion: I Show No Compassion

Erotic Writing and Experiences
14 Days, 14 Girls Part 4: Kim
Duties of The Admired Fuck
First Day on the Job
The First Squirt
Intoxication
Let me introduce you to my special talent….
Neighbor’s Hot Tub
Possession
Privacy Please
Rebel in the Wild
A Return to Form
Seductive Sin
She can take more.
Someplace I’ve never been, part 3
Stripper Academy
Thrill In The Woods – Chapter 2
Wanting to Be Wanted
Wet Spots

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Linkage: 10-29-08

by Viviane on 10/29/2025

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RH Reality Check’s Election and Reproductive Health Guide

Barbara Nitke has a beautiful new website, and is now blogging. I helped!

Lolita Wolf is a spanking expert – she was interviewed for the 30th anniversary issue of Penthouse Variations.

Gerard Damiano, director of Deep Throat, has passed away at the age of 80. (NYT).

Regina Lynn reviews the Tanni Machine.

No on Prop 8: Anita Wagner reprints Anthony Romero, Natl Director of ACLU‘s letter.

Lauren Wissot on the sexiest vampire movie ever.

Butterfly Temptress’ series Life. Love. Cancer is being reposted here. You can contribute to her medical expenses fund by clicking on the Paypal link at the right side of my blog.

A Yes vote on Prop K is a vote for human rights.

Susie Bright’s running a Sarah Palin Halloween costume contest. You have until Saturday to submit.

Gus Van Sant’s Harvey Milk premiered last night in San Francisco.

I’m not so good at Scrabble. (XKCD)

. . . The most consistent data on infidelity come from the General Social Survey, sponsored by the National Science Foundation and based at the University of Chicago, which has used a national representative sample to track the opinions and social behaviors of Americans since 1972. The survey data show that in any given year, about 10 percent of married people — 12 percent of men and 7 percent of women — say they have had sex outside their marriage.

But detailed analysis of the data from 1991 to 2006, to be presented next month by Dr. Atkins at the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies conference in Orlando, show some surprising shifts. University of Washington researchers have found that the lifetime rate of infidelity for men over 60 increased to 28 percent in 2006, up from 20 percent in 1991. For women over 60, the increase is more striking: to 15 percent, up from 5 percent in 1991.

The researchers also see big changes in relatively new marriages. About 20 percent of men and 15 percent of women under 35 say they have ever been unfaithful, up from about 15 and 12 percent respectively.

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