September 2008

Sugasm #148

by Viviane on 09/30/2025

in sex blogs, sugasm

Scatlett

Scatlett

Photo: Scarlett (gODDESS)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #149? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
People I could hang out with
“But it wasn’t just a story, it was a damn sexy story.”

Red, Hot Ass
“I grunted, but held still.”

Smart Girls Make Better Lovers
“Chicks with brains can make you scream.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sex Blogging and Writing for the Drawer

Sex History
Right To Vibe

Erotic Writing and Experiences
A is for
Adult Party Games – Round One
Adventures in Digital
Balcony fun
The Dinner Party: Part I
Female Waxing
Frisson
Her Glorious Cunt
Lilly and the Construction Crew
Not So Complicated
Sex in Public on Road Trip Day 9
So Wrong….
The Waiting is the Hottest Part. Confession #140

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Every Kind of Sex Available: Exploring The Limits of CyberSex
NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Impertinent Question: What’s the Kinkiest Thing You’ve Ever Done?
Study HNT

Sex Work
Sex Work and Compassion: Self Hating Client
The Sockjob Goddess Returneth…

Sex Advice
Libido in Older Women
Pregnancy BDSM
Try the Pelvic Slide Position for Maximum Clitoral Stimulation

BDSM & Fetish
A domestic fantasy
A man becomes a fucking machine
Not your usual gangbang.
Playing the scene
Sex Camp 2008: Fiiiiyuuuurrrr!!!

Sex Humor
Fantasy Friday: Ahoy, Matey!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 4
Marriage Failure a Natural Success
Never submit to escort screening
Sex Shop Jitters
Ten Things I Find Extremely Sexy On Men – The Non-Physical Version
What I read at Dirty Words night
Why do I do This?

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino, the “Pucker Up” sex columnist who has been with the Village Voice for nine years, was laid off on Friday, she confirmed to Gawker today. Voice editor Tony Ortega told her she was a victim of budget cuts.

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. . . WORKING from bed was a dream of the Internet age, and Hot 97 deejay Fatman Scoop and his wife, Shanda Freeman, have achieved it. True, their bed is currently in an MTV studio, but they were happy to truck it in from their New Jersey home.

The network picked up the couple’s podcast, “Man and Wife” for a show of the same name that debuted last night.

From the comfort of their comforter, Scoop and Shanda discuss – and demonstrate – questions viewers e-mail them regarding everything from sex and relationships to darker issues such as sexual abuse and sexually transmitted diseases. While you no longer have to be 18 to benefit from the hosts’ abundant wit and wisdom, everything else from the podcast- the bed, Scoop’s boxers, Shanda’s impressive bosom – remains the same.

The original concept for a sex-info show from bed was presented to Scoop by producers Charlie Stettler and Alex Lasky in 2006. He’d tackle sex and relationships and other risqué topics that he couldn’t cover during his day job. It was going to be called “Pillow Talk.”

“I was accepting applications for women to host the show with me, until I realized one night in bed that the woman that’s in my face was the right woman for the job. And she’s my wife, so I don’t have to pay her!” says Scoop.

“It was a natural fit for me,” agrees Shanda. “I used to work in HIV/AIDS services, I was a phlebotomist for 15 years and I was a teenage mom, so I really have a lot of experience that people can relate to.” So much for “Pillow Talk.”

Safe sex is one of the couple’s pet topics, and they say that their own children “have learned about all of this before the rest of America.”

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The Frisky: Are tapes likes these even a big deal anymore?

Lux Nightmare: I don’t think it’s a big deal. I’d like to see people realize everybody has a sex tape video or photos. This is what people do as part of their sex lives. I’m sure [Britney] has one. Whether or not it’ll surface, I can’t say. The thing for me is that most celebrity sex tapes are the same as the sex tapes you or I would make—and they’re not necessarily going to be good. There is a thrill, if it’s her; beyond that, it’s bad amateur. People who make sex tapes [for a living] think about the viewer; they’re doing it as a stimulating service. I feel like half the thrill of making a sex tape isn’t watching it. Most people get off on the thrill of making it.

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Melissa Gira‘s teaching a class on sex and blogging:

Blogging Sex
Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 7:30pm – 9:00pm
Center for Sex and Culture
1519 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA

Learning how to set up a blog is *so* not the same thing as learning how to deal with what you’re going to say on your blog. Especially if that’s about sex. Your audience may be the dozen friends and lovers who read you every day in a private journal, or it could be as much of the world that you want — and co-workers, family, and a few ex’s to boot. You may write under a pseudonym, or you may want to make a name for yourself. You might write smut, or confession, memoir, or essay: since it’s sex and you’re writing in public, it’s going to get messy sooner or later. Melissa will share some of the more scandalous success stories of where blogging sex has taken a few online personalities you’ve heard of and (since it’s the Internet) some you definitely haven’t heard of yet. She’ll be drawing on her own ten years as a serial oversharer online, and just a little on her stint this year reporting on sex for the Internet industry gossip blog Valleywag.com. If you’ve ever wondered how to write fairly, smartly, and hotly online about your own sex life, come to this talk and workshop with your laptop and your questions.