September 2006

CineKink Announces Kink-Packed Festival Line-Up – October 17-22, 2006

by Viviane on 09/29/2006

in cinekink, Wet Spots, wetspots

NEW YORK, NY; Sep. 27, 2006 – CineKink NYC makes its brazen return on Tuesday, October 17th, featuring a specially curated program of films and videos that explore and celebrate a wide diversity of sexuality. In addition to screenings, plans for the fourth annual festival also include a short film competition, audience choices awards and presentation of the annual CineKink Tribute, all sandwiched between a gala kick-off and a grand finale “afterglow” party.

Billing itself as “the really alternative film festival,” the event will run October 17-22, 2006. Presented by CineKink, an organization dedicated to the recognition and encouragement of kink-positive depictions in film and television, works presented at CineKink NYC will range from documentary to drama, mildly spicy to quite explicit – and everything in between.

“It feels as if CineKink has finally ‘popped’ this year, that we’ve definitely come into our own,” says Lisa Vandever, CineKink’s co-founder and director. “First off, the number and range of the films and videos submitted was yet another leap up from before. And the level of interest we’re receiving is just incredibly gratifying.”

The festivities begin Tuesday, October 17, at 8 PM, with a kick-off gala to be held at Bacchus (515 W. 29th Street, NYC), featuring a performance by The Wet Spots, the cabaret duo renowned for such melodious marvels as “Bi-Curious George,” “Piggy Pile” and their internet music video smash hit, “Do You Take It?”

The festival then moves to Anthology Film Archives (32 Second Avenue, NYC), Wednesday, October 18 through Saturday, October 21, with several different film and video programs scheduled for each day. CineKink NYC concludes on Sunday, October 22, at 7 PM with an Awards Celebration, featuring encore screenings of jury-selected best shorts from the week and presentation of the festival’s annual awards, to be followed at 8:3O PM by an Afterglow Party, one last chance for like-minded festival-goers to meet and mingle (Bacchus; 515 W. 29, NYC).

For more information and advance tickets, visit http://www.cinekink.com.

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In The Flesh Reading Series, Oct. 18

by Viviane on 09/29/2006

in rachelkramerbussel

In The Flesh gets literary in October with racy words from short story writer Jami Attenberg (Instant Love), spoken word impresario Mo Beasley and members of his dirty-word powerhouse UrbanErotika, playright Christen Clifford (Baby Love, 17 Guys I Fucked), novelist Marcy Dermansky (Twins), San Francisco-based author Stephen Elliott (My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up, Happy Baby), and erotica writer P.F. Kozak (Passions, Sins and Secrets), along with host Rachel Kramer Bussel (Caught Looking: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists; Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2). Copies of the authors’ books will be given away, and free candy and mini cupcakes will be served.

full bios here.

Happy Ending Bar
302 Broome Street, NYC

Directions: B/D to Grand, F to Delancey, J/M/Z to Bowery

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Hot for Hubby: The Carnival Reviews Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity

by Viviane on 09/29/2006

in sex


“If you want to stop having sex, just get married,” goes that tired American chestnut. Our cultural dictates that the marital bed might be intimate, cuddly, and comfy — the sexual equivalent of a teddy bear, perhaps — but rarely ever hot. Hot is reserved for the call girl, the college Spring Break fling, the emotionally-crazy-yet-passionate ex-girlfriend before the search for stability.

But does it have to be this way? Esther Perel, a sexual psychotherapist of 20 moons, doesn’t think so. In her new book, Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic + the Domestic (HarperCollins, 2006), Perel argues that the American drive for complete togetherness — matching sweatpants at Junior’s soccer game, endless late-night divulgences of your every last recollection from junior high, and making every night a Blockbuster night — is completely antithetical to keeping eroticism alive in a long-term, committed relationship. According to Perel, separateness, not togetherness, is the key to maintaining the hots for one another. “When people become fused — when two become one, connection can no longer happen,” Perel writes. “There is no one to connect with. Thus separateness is a precondition for connection: this is the essential paradox of intimacy and sex.”

Perel utilizes this thesis for a number of topics related to pair-bonding: maternity (she laments the “cult of the child” and the lack of separate space for adults to be adults), fantasy (she says it’s important to cultivate our own, separate fantasy lives to re-charge the relationship) and even the Holy Grail itself, monogamy (while she doesn’t explicitly advocate for polyamory, she does claim that every relationship exists on a “dyad of the third,” and that one must “let the stranger in” to keep things hot.) Ostensibly using examples from her real-life therapy practice, Perel writes in a breezy, conversational style that is easy to follow and renders Mating a quick read. Unlike most tomes about sex written by psychiatric professionals, Perel understands the need for humor: in her fantasy chapter, for instance, she makes light of a patient’s D/s fantasy featuring cowboys with some quick-witted John Wayne references and a touch of playful irreverence.

It is difficult to say if every example Perel utilizes is really true to life; the cast of characters, for example, all speak with remarkably similar diction. Yet Perel’s down-to-earth style and provocative thesis — who knew, in our hyper-saturated, Oprah-fied culture, that growing apart could make the sex better? — is sound. Captivity won’t start a revolution, but it will get couples re-evaluating their sex lives. And anything to keep the Joneses jonesing for each other is a good thing, I say.

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Sugasm #48

by Viviane on 09/29/2006

in bdsm, bloggers, bondage, erotica, kink, nude, sex blogs, sexbloggers, sexblogs, sexy, skin, sugasm

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Spotlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants.

Want in Sugasm #49? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
The Luckiest Girl in the World (http://alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
“Would he have the energy, the stamina, to make me come as much as I need to come?”

I Want To Shave You (http://makemycopcome.blogspot.com)
“That luscious plum, that erotic ridge around it, the enticing veins tracing their way up that cock I am so engrossed in…”

The Rum Raisin Compromise (http://talktovanessa.com)
“My husband did not understand why I couldn’t live the rest of my life without the taste of a woman passing my lips.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Give Away Porn (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Rope Bondage Images (http://www.lumpesse.com)

Sexy Audio & Video
Hear My Name (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
How to Give a Blowjob in a Car (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Sex Inspiration, Study & Dream – Video Blog Entry (http://www.seska4lovers.com)
Slave Girl: Part One (http://fuckingtheministersdaughter.blogspot.com)

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Craigslist User Publicizes Private Correspondence (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com/blog)
Do Video Games Effect Our Sex Lives? (Survey) (http://sugarjoy.com)
The Five Best Tera Patrick Scenes of All Time (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)
Inflatable Vibrating Penis (http://www.orgasmarmy.com)
Tire Paddle HNT (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)

NSFW Pics
Adela & Susana (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
Ass Masterpiece (http://www.internetisforporn.com)
Consolation Eye Candy, or What a Wild, Wild Month! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
Featured DDGirls Covergirl Sunny Leone (http://www.ddgirlsblog.com)
Put on a Shirt HNT (http://texasspitfire.blogspot.com)
Roxy in booty shorts (http://phatbootysolos.ilovejulienight.com)
Two Bad Girls in a Prison Bed (http://adelehaze.com)
WebMistress Feature Gallery: Scenic Silver Reef (http://www.taratainton.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Adult Webcam Humor (http://www.model-chat.com)
Boobies (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)
Erotic Rather Than Fucking (http://orgasmcurious.blogspot.com)
Phain’s Tasty Specs… (http://wetbeyondbelief.blogspot.com)
Science of Sex – Sense of Smell (http://www.seskuality.com)
Sex Goddess??? (http://thegooseandgander.blogspot.com)
“Three sex acts enter, one sex act leaves.” (http://sexeteria.blogspot.com)
The Vagina and the Douche (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
2. Greet (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
Dreaming of a Dark Odyssey (http://viviane212.blogspot.com)
The Eternal Hotness of Hanna (http://theholidaylife.blogspot.com)
Get Caught Looking now! (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)
My Taxicab Confession (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Room 304, Part I (http://www.chillivanilla.com/blg)
Teresa (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)

BDSM and Fetish
Happy HNT-Cheerleader Paddling (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Lions, Tigers, and Spankings! Oh my! (http://spankingkatiespades.blogspot.com)
A Long Awaited Erotic Very Sexy Spanking Session… Finally (http://lizzietush.blogspot.com)
Melinda Makes a Discovery… (http://www.blog.sex-mad-witch.com)
Pajama Party (http://thebinside.blogspot.com)
She was like a wild animal… (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)
Switching My Bottom On (http://spankingwriters.com/blog)

Photo of Adele Haze and Niki Flynn courtesy of Adele Haze’s “Spanking Model Speaks”

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Afternoon Victory

by Holiday on 09/28/2006

in sex

First thing this morning I think of you… and your misbehavior with Matthew. I jerk off because the influence of Matthew on you makes me hot and jealous. Afterwards, I shave my balls for the date with Kyle. I want to impress him with my smooth cock.

I love your SMS response to my earlier message:
“Glad you liked the story, inspired by … you. And Matthew. Think of me as you suck Kyle’s cock today, and then tell me everything.”

I reply:
“Dior, you are so good to me. You want me to think of you while I go down on Kyle’s seven-inch cock? I will … as he fucks my face.”

Like me, Kyle is a married man who occasionally enjoys a male friend with benefits. Our arrangement begins seven years ago, though I have not seen him for the past three years because I live in Europe.

My cell phone finally rings around 1 p.m. It is Kyle. He is ready. I am more than ready.

“You remember where I live?” Kyle asks.
“Of course,” I answer.

How can I forget where Kyle lives? I have been to his house so many times in the past, and given him so many blow jobs while his wife was out at work.

Before I leave for the five-minute drive to Kyle’s house, I send you another SMS message: “My Dior, I’m on my way to suck cock.”

Kyle is waiting for me outside when I arrive. He hasn’t changed at all in the past three years. At age 47, Kyle is still handsome and fit from weekend soccer.

We talk as we head up the stairs to his spacious second floor master bedroom, but I pay no attention to what either of us says. All I can think of is seeing Kyle nude, with his proud, throbbing cock protruding upward.

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