The next day, R and I make love again and lie around talking in bed.
He’s been interested in D/s for about 6 years, but he’s only had a few relationships where the dynamic actually played out, and I may be the first one where what we want is so compatible, so mutual.
“I used to be with a woman, and I started to realized I wanted to spank her, to slap her face and pull her hair, and there was no way I could do it that in te relationships I was having,” he says. “I started to explore D/s, but I always wanted it to be with someone I loved and cared about, not with a professional, or with a woman with no self-esteem.”
“I didn’t know what I wanted,” I say,”But I thought the power exchange would have an intensity that would be incredibly expressive–I just didn’t realize how intense it would be.”
“That’s why I wanted it to be someone I loved,” he says–”Because it’s so close and powerful.”
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From one of my favorite sex blogs, an intimate, thoughtful and sexy chronicle of a woman making a mid-life turn after divorce and finding that dominance and submission are quickly becoming a fulfilling part of her new life. I’ll post pieces from it from time to time.
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