I’ve been thinking a lot about recommendations for first scenes (“scene” is a term for an actual domination experience or session). The funny thing is – I can’t imagine what the ideal best scenes would be. The most important thing about your exploration of domination is that you enjoy it. That means you develop your style around the things that you enjoy (or will enjoy).
I’m sure many submissives would like to see me listing out all these really hot, intense scenes for you to try. In fact, I bet many dominant women have received little notes or printed stories from their partners saying “This is the kind of thing we could try.” Then you read it and realize – Oh my god – he wants me to do THAT? Even some of my own stories are so unrealistic that I feel almost guilty that some men might have forwarded them to their mates as a ‘helpful hint’.
Well, here is my helpful hint. When you consider what your first play time will be like, don’t consider what he wants; consider what you want.
